2006-09-28 11:52:08 · 26 answers · asked by Alabama lib killer 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
they're great to have as friends, but I'm not sexually turned on to them
2006-09-28 13:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by sammy22005 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I think they make terrific friends, but I'm not usually attracted to them. I think it's an evolutionary thing that women look for the best protector/provider. I'm most attracted to confidence, and effeminate men just don't seem very confident to me. At the other end of the spectrum, I'm really turned off by machismo as well.
2006-09-28 12:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by gatheringplace2002 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how feminine they are. I do not have a problem with it to some degree. I have dated guys who were a little on the feminine side you could say. I would not date someone who was over the top like a girl. It can be a good thing sometimes. If you are an effeminate person don't worry about it. Just be yourself, anyone who does not like you for who you are is not worth being friends with.
2006-09-28 11:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by ladybug 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hard one for me to answer, for I have been one for a long time, now. At a early age I walked down the path of being a transvestite. My older sister got me started on it. It got to the point where I enjoyed wearing her clothes as much as I could. Eventually, when I got older I started taking hormones. Now I am pre-op & live with 2 very understanding & beautiful women. Who are helping me to become what I really want. And that is to be a female.
2006-09-28 17:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I guess it's OK... I mean because of their nature, I would think they make a good friend & offer great advice as they have a better understanding of us females, since they pretty much observe & learn anyway, lol.
And if that means they're metrosexuals, that's good too, they know how to take care of themselves not like most men who don't=P
2006-09-28 15:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I desire my adult men to be masculine and dominant. i doesn't deny a courting in protecting with being nicely groomed or how affectionate he's yet i'd in protecting with how female he's. i'm no longer very girly myself and that i desire someone who's good to stability issues. If i'm with a weak minded man or woman, I received't respect them so the courting would fail right away or land up being abusive in an emotional sense.
2016-10-16 02:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I generally think that he is probably gay. If he is gay, well its no big deal. I have a couple of gay friends. One if effeminate and one is not. Sometimes it is strange though, because the effeminate one can act more girlish than I can!
If he is not gay, then why is he acting effeminate? Is he maybe confused about his sexuality?
2006-09-28 11:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sabina 5 · 4⤊ 5⤋
They had better learn to like them; schools are churning them out in droves. Public schools and then universities seek to feminize men (i.e. co-ed sports, sports with no scoreboard, 5-yr old boys being arrested for kissing a female classmate).
Liberalism is so rampant in American education, and if you will notice, almost all liberal males are effeminate. Thankfully, enough people will convert to conservatives once they enter the workforce and society (i.e. reality).
2006-09-28 12:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by Irish Eyes 4 · 4⤊ 5⤋
If you want someone who will care for you, love you without abuse, laugh with you and not at you, not judge you, and know all the right places to touch----this kind of man is awesome!
2006-09-30 08:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
They are great fun guys usually pretty intelligent too, but likely only interested in being friends mutually I would guess?
2006-09-28 13:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by Golfgirl 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think there grate people. Everyone is a little different, as long as you make me laugh, I dont care how effeminate you are. I like a funny man, who is nice and listens.
2006-09-28 11:55:25 · answer #11 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 4⤊ 6⤋