what are some signs a man is flirting with a woman (I am talking about a man who is in his late 30's and a woman who is also in her 30's)? Please give me some signs as to how he would flirt...... Thanks!
2006-09-28 11:45:53 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are many. Casual breif touching, longer moments of eye contact, body language that suggests openness (leaning forward, not crossing leggs or arms), feeding (offering samples of food), topics about relationships or sex, etc.
2006-09-28 11:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by adphllps 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a can of worm this one is going to be.... :)
OK, let me put this simple... (I am male so I like it simple
I am married, and happily I might add (and early 30's). People will flirt whether they are interested in sex or friendship. I would never cross the line of friendship with the opposite sex as I respect my wife too much. (be sure that is not the case by reading below)
Lets take a closer look at your question and maybe ask for a bit of clarification or what motivates it:
You ovbiously are interested in said person, I take it you are a female in your 30's and you have a friend and/or colleage in his late thirties (I would say possibly friend).
You like him but want to know if he is actually flirting with you as a friend or maybe he wants to take it a little further (and you want to make sure that he wants to go further).
OK, here is the blunt end of the stick:
If he is not in a pre-existing relationship then take it slow, (non-alcoholic) drinks after work etc (NB with other friends to start), he may be shy, if he wants to take it fast then chances are he is not worth it (there are many reasons for this comment, I am sure you will work them out).
If you are worried about your.. um.. err.. (how do I put this politely without getting flammed?) biological clock - FORGET IT as you WILL make a poor decision if you rely on the physical to make decisions and womens intuition is a MYTH or women don't really know how to use it, one or the other I see too many female friends rely on it and get BURNED BIG TIME!
Whatever happens, just dont rush it, savour the moments.
I used to have a friend who was my "Movie Buddy" sure I would have wanted it to go further (with her) but I am glad it did not.
At the end of the day when all is said and done you have to under stand that you should not try and force a relationship, men flirt, women flirt, don't build up an image in your mind how everything would be perfect with this person, just let it happen one day at a time. Spend time with said person and the more time you spend the more you will know about them and the more they will know about you. After you know more about each other it may be a natural progression together or apart, either way it will not be as hard to deal with if you pull apart if you do not rush in. Remember sex complicates things! (unfortunately I know personally)
Just remember you don't have to go to a fancy resturant or expensive place to enjoy each other's company even a bush walk with other singles/couples can be memorable (see how said person reacts around other singles as you dont want a womaniser). Also remember that looks are not everything either, cause over time the looks will fade, just think 20-30 years on if you are married you will still have to have some things in common to talk about or activites you enjoy doing together (ahem... besides sex).
Wat ever the outcome I wish you all the best.
2006-09-28 12:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by fungal.style 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guy and a woman both know when the other is flirting. If something is said that makes your heart stop for a moment or if eye contact is made and you feel time has frozen, if a touch intentional or otherwise is made and you know then that is flirting
2006-09-28 12:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by integritygonzo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body language plays a huge part in flirting. Is he leaning into you when he talks to you? Does he ever touch your arm or hand? Sometimes it is really hard to tell, but if you like this guy, then why not flirt back. You will know for sure then.
2006-09-28 11:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Repeatedly looking at the other woman with long eye contacts .
Touching .
Making compliments about her looks .
Be ( in a conversation ) more focused on her than on you .
When going back home , his mind is definitely elswere.
2006-09-28 11:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything he or she wouldn't do in front of a girlfriend or boyfriend, I think is flirting.
2006-09-28 11:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Sailor's Wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Winking, talking and asking about things, smiling, small talk, looking at you. The one trick I know that is really good is to try not looking at him, to give him a chance to look at you. Occasionally turn your head to see how much he looks at you. That's why people you're not interested in tend to be interested in you.
2006-09-28 11:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always manages to be around.....
Asking questions about her and her life all the time.
Playfully trying to get a date, acting like he doesn't mean it when he does.
2006-09-28 11:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, one he would ask you ask, two, he would be kind to you, and most likely,(hopfully) be mature enough to do so. Guys are simple, they usually are easy to read.
2006-09-28 11:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Read n' Write 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes to talk to you, keep phoning, ask about what shirt to wear ina certain occasion. what color is the best look for him. ask your opinion that he can solve it on his own. he will offer any help. ride, housework.
2006-09-28 11:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋