2006-09-28 11:37:32 · 17 answers · asked by hey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell your parents as soon as possible because hes 20 and shies 14 that's not good i don't think he has good intentions hes to old if she was 18 that would be her problem but right know she could be in danger
2006-09-28 11:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents need to know. Don't discuss with your sister, just tell your parents. This relation is disfunctional and the mental/emotional stability of male in question is obviously bad. Your parents need to know so that can deal with the situation. You being sibling are not in a position to make the decisions that must be made and if you discuss this with your sister prior to your parents, there is the possiblity that you sister will leave to 'be with him'.
You sister may 'dis-like' you for doing this.. but you know that what is going on is wrong and therefore you will be doing the right thing.
Good luck and talk to your parents AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!
2006-09-28 11:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by wrkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enable's check out the placement good now basically for the point of actual thoughts, in lieu of statutory rape. enable's only see the genuine jist between actual thoughts and the income that he had once you have been 14. you spot what I propose. all of us be attentive to what Bryan thought once you have been 14, and now that he's 26 and you're 20, what does he, or you think of now? the place is he? i assume considering you have been basically 14 on the time, all you are able to remember is that the guy's call is "Bryan." for sure you're afflicted with the help of that. that's suprising that he's not afflicted with the help of that besides. i ponder whether he has being questioning approximately you those days after all this. according to probability considering that "embarrasment" undertaking, or guilt, have been given interior the way then, that's in all probability why he's not attempting to get in touch with you presently. good?
2016-10-01 11:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by huenke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell your parents. Your sister will hate you for a while, but ultimately you could be saving her life. You never know these days because so many people are crazy, and take advantage of unsuspecting girls. Good luck and I hope everything works out ok.
2006-09-28 11:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents there is a big difference in a 20 yr old male and a fourteen yr old female. At that age you know they are expecting sex. That is also against the law....I want to smack the guy and I don't even know him. He needs to go to jail...
2006-09-28 11:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by mosierjuly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL ON HER!!! She can't and won't be mad at you forever but a 20 year old!!! that's not even LEGAL!!! that is a 6 year difference!!! You have no idea what could happen with this guy the sooner you let your parents know the better!
2006-09-28 11:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you expressed your worry to your sister?? Not that she is going to listen to you anyway, she is 14. But she needs to know, that that is a dangerous situation. How did she meet her boyfriend? Is she having sex with him? These are all things that matter when it comes to talking to her about it. I would suggest trying to talk to her about it without bringing your parents into it. If she continues to see him after you talk to her, then bring in your parents. But let her know that it is not to hurt her, but to help keep her safe. That is an important thing to include in any of the conversations you have with her on this subject
2006-09-28 11:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by wombat_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince her out of the relationship. If it doesn't work than drop hints to your parents. Or purposely ruin her relationship so she'll wanna leave. Did i mention it's illegal for that guy to be dating a minor?
2006-09-28 11:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your sister & tell your parents. This guy needs to be sent away....
2006-09-28 11:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it IS illegal. I really think you should snitch, cuz even if he doesn't do anyhting physical to her, it's still illegal. not to mention that both biologically and mentally he might be more mature and he should date people his own age.
and your sis should slow down- i only started dating when I turned 15.
2006-09-28 11:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋