Today all the kids in my class turned on me. My friends thought it would be funny to steal my purse at lunch and watch me freak out as I tried to find out where it was. Well they took it too far and pushed me over the edge. I cried. And not only did I cry but I cried in front of my crush. I am really mad at them right now. Do I have something to be mad about? Or am I being ridiculous and I should just move on? Please help. I have to see him at school tomarrow and it is really awkward!!
2006-09-28 11:21:57 · 27 answers · asked by Kim{berly} 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just move on. Forget it ever happened. Crying isn't something to get embarrassed about, even in front of your crush.
Put it out of your mind. Laugh about it if someone else brings it up. When you look back on it a few years from now, you'll probably think it was funny.
I'm old enough... I've been embarrassed plenty of times. And you'll be too. Nothing you can do but accept that kind of thing happens to everyone.
2006-09-28 11:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by johntadams3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset. That was so cruel. I'm 18 now, but when I was 16 I left my purse in a classroom. Someone took it and their friends told me they've never seen it. I eventually got it back after I went to the principal. After that I just stopped carrying my purse around. Do you know exactly who started it? They don't sound like friends to me. If I were you, I'd turn them in. It may seem like tattletailing, but how great would it feel to see them in trouble. Hopefully then no one will do anything because you don't put up with it. As far as your crush goes, if he's a real man, he'll understand what happened and not judge you for it. If he makes fun of you for it, than he's not a good guy for you.
2006-09-28 18:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by randomwoman56413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first all, how old are you? are you around 13? or more like 18? if you are younger, then i honestly wouldn't worry about this. and these people really aren't your friends. i know that this sounds cliche, but it is true. 10 years from now, you may not even talk to these people. this moment will not define the rest of your life. it might be hard right now, but don't stress about it. when i was in highschool, i thought that it was the most important thing in the world. i've been out of school for 5 years now, and i only keep in contact with a few people (and i have known all of them since elementary school).....so honestly, don't stress about it too much. now if you are 18, i'd say that crying was a bit much....
2006-09-28 18:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what your friends did was very mean because real friends would never do anything to hurt your feelings real friends are the ones kicking butt for you when someone makes fun of you....And sometimes my friends make jokes, but your friends went WAY over the edge on this practical joke...They should not have done that to you if they knew it would've hurted your feelings...I think you have every right to be mad at them too because that was very mean and you and your friends need to have a big talk...
2006-09-28 18:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be mad. What they did was cruel, and they are not really your friends if they like to trick and embarass you.
I had friends play a similar trick on me in the 7th grade - the next day I sat at another table, made other friends, and never talked to those heartless twits again.
Carry your head high, and maybe your crush will be impressed at your maturity.
2006-09-28 18:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did they toss your purse in the toilet or trash can?
PRobably not. Take it in stride. Laugh about it tommorrow because you will 5 yrs from now when you look back. No big deal. Let everyone know you just overreacted and now you understand that they were just yanking your chain.
If you cry, you cry alone, but if you laugh, others will laugh with you. Don't let your pride get between you and your friends or crush. THings like this happen all the time. No harm done.
2006-09-28 18:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just walk into school with your head held high.It was a mean trick to play. If anyone mentions it,just say " It was a nasty thing to do,but I'm over it. So....who's turn is it today?" You're not being silly,just human. Your crush will see you as a girl who has feelings. Remember..head high. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow. Just one day to go then you got the weekend off
2006-09-28 18:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset. It was a cruel joke that went bad. Don't worry about crying in front of your crush we are all human. If they where in that situation they probable would have done more than just cry. As long as your friend knows that she/he messed up and apologize then you can let it go. If she/he doesn't apologize then I don't think she/he is much of a friend.
2006-09-28 18:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by mosierjuly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel embarrassed. Everyone feels embarrassed at some point. Laugh with them. You will find that they will laugh at you if you cry. Take it from one who knows. I was so embarrassed in high school when my menstruation started and I wore a light green mini-skirt and everbody laughed. I went to school the next day though with my head held high. Remember that people have short memories. Laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone...ancient saying.
2006-09-28 18:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by glenda576 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn right you have a right to be mad, they were out of line, and when they saw it was going to far they should have stopped and apologized. I would say they are not true friends to do something like that. I would go to school tomorrow with your head held high and ignore everyone who has something to say about what happened, unless of course what they have to say is I'm sorry.
2006-09-28 18:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋