If a female, who online games with your partner, and who you always thought was just his friend, sent him an email like this, after meeting you both for the first time, what would you do?
“I just wanted to thank you again for having me, it was great to meet you finally :) and I had a great time! (hope you did too?) I can't remember the last time I talked so much or for so long, although I am afraid I lack the people skills to talk very well to more than 1 person at a time, and was worried I was leaving you out too much, Jane is more chatty so tends to steal the spotlight, she’s nice tho, I like her. I kept wishing I could talk to make sure you
were ok when you were being quiet, I never did work out if you were feeling left out, or just tired or if you just like to listen, or if
you wished I would go home so we could play the game lol ;) I almost called you by your character name a few times too *blush* ooops! Hope I didn't cause any trouble!"
Grrrrrrr...
2006-09-28 11:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by Dreamer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seems like more than just friendly chat. Talk to your guy about how it makes you feel and make sure he knows what your limits are. Not everyone gets offended by flirting...but if YOU do, then your guy should respect that. Just talk to him, tell him how you feel and what you want and if he's the right one for you, he'll respect your request/concern. Good luck hun.
2006-09-28 11:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a female gamer online, and the only one in my clan, I can honestly say she's crossing the line here. There's a difference between being "friendlY" and being FRIENDLY.
I would confront my husband though, not her. It would be my husband that gave her the initiative to take this sort of lead. He should have put an end to the flirting. I'd tell him to find a new server, or a new mate. :)
2006-09-28 18:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica Murphy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Grrrrrrrr ... too soon !
I might be just an Innocent email . Try to read between the lines .
See what happens in the near future .
If it happens again ....well !!!
Just keep a close eye on things .
I hope it's nothing to be worried about .
2006-09-28 18:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grr indeed! I'd be very jealous, but maybe thats just me! I get a little jealous when my guy reads FHM infront of me..maybe I'm abnormal!
for someone that just plays online with him, shes sounds abit to caring and friendly..Id keep an eye on the situation and talk to your partner!
2006-09-28 18:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by moomoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you there? Are you Jane?
If you weren't there and he kept this meeting a secret then I would be suspicious. But then again, why were you sneaking around in his emails? Onviously you didn't trust him to begin with. And how would you approach him about it? You were sneaking in his emails.
2006-09-28 18:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the two of them together and ask what is going on?
2006-09-28 18:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by orimoon3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this catty, backbiting female. She is trying to knife you.
2006-09-28 18:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no. I'd be pissed. have you confronted your partner?
2006-09-28 18:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not cool at all.
2006-09-28 18:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋