after a lot of arguments, my partner isnt talking to me. I found porn magazines under his bed and was shocked and confromted him but we sorted it out. I then gave him my bank card to draw some money out for himself and he took more than he should have and i went mad!! We have been together 2 years and this is so out of character ( taking money). He has contacted me and i have taken things to his flat for him but he wont see me. Is he feeling guilty?? Or is this over?? The argument happened 6 days ago!!
2006-09-28 11:14:05 · 11 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh you poor thing! This sounds so sad!
If he won't see you, have you thought of maybe writing him a letter? Sometimes emotion can be portrayed better on paper then in person, where you get all chocked up and can't get out what you want to really say.
If he still won't talk to you after you pour out your heart and soul to him, you might have to call his bluff and take a break for a while. I'm sure he'll eventually realise what he's missing out on!
Good luck, my thoughts are with you!
2006-09-28 11:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say its pretty much over. something obviously is wrong if he is lookin at porn. you need 2 ask yourself why is he looking at it in the first place if there was a prob with sexual side of the relationship he shpold have spoken to you about it or maybe you just weent enough for him in which case he isnt worth it
2006-09-28 18:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever , ever , give your credit card to your partner .
It's your card , not his .
Let him use his own card .
If he doesn't have any money ........too bad !!
About the porn .
I consider porn .....cheating , no matter what men try to tell you .
Get rid of him , there are thousands of other ( nice ) men out there .
2006-09-28 18:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you just got to trust him. dont confront him just do a little digging if you see some thing go to some one you know who is going to kee the secret. If you lay off it just ight last longer.
2006-09-28 18:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by curtisha10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over don't waste any more thoughts on him instead get out there and find a real man more worth your time and energy.....
2006-09-28 18:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over hey the goo part is you can fine some one Way better than him
2006-09-28 18:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Move on.
2006-09-28 18:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get over him and get a new man
2006-09-28 18:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie2007 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its over be glad you are not with the bum
2006-09-28 18:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should get yourself a new man.. He sounds like a loser.
2006-09-28 18:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋