What i meant is, how should an idol husband be? How to keep a healthy relationship? If there's an argument about somthing, what's the best way to deal with? What you expect from him? What he can expect from you?
2006-09-28 11:07:56 · 17 answers · asked by leawrra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Affection, understanding, love, friendship, companionship. Always there for each other. Take care of each other.
All things found in a typical happy marriage.
2006-09-28 11:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ideal husband should be committed to the relationship, and have a kind heart.
Nobody is perfect, and there are times when we all fall short of what our partner expects of us. But those are the two things that are necessary to keep a marriage from failing.
A healthy relationship in a marriage means that you don't have to force one another to spend most of your time together! Sure, there should be enough space that the two of you can have private time. But when the fun comes around, you should WANT to do things together.
Arguments do come up, and the main thing is to FORGIVE one another. Sometimes you might even go to bed still angry, but by the next day you should be so lonesome for one another's company that you can't stand it any more and you just forgive and forget.
When you have to argue, try to make it accomplish something, rather than fighting about the same stuff all your lives. Learn from those tiffs, and try to change if you can, to make your partner happy.
All of the above should be expected, whether it is from a husband or a wife. No difference. Total equality in the relationship is what really works.
2006-09-28 18:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I only can talk about my ideal husband. He has to be like a Teddy Bear, cuddly and gentle and understanding, supportive in what I am doing. He can expect the same of me. There is always going to be arguments, because everybody is entitle to their own opinion. Just don't get into a fight over it, at the end of the day, what difference does it make who is right or wrong.
2006-09-28 18:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the word IDOL (or even if you mean IDEAL, still drop that). That's just wrong. He is just another flawed person, like you. It's a give-take relationship. You win some, you lose some. Pick your battles. You sacrifice some, you server some, compromise often. Expect a guy to be a guy, don't expect him to change. Marry him for who he IS.
2006-09-28 18:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I like it when you time out of each day to acknowledge and appreciate me. I love that you work hard to make sure that the bills are paid (I work too, but you know what I mean, you are not lazy). When we disagree, raising your voice and intimidation will never get you what you want, and I am thankful that we never go to bed angry, even if it means staying up all night. I like it when you hold me as I fall asleep. I love it when you surprise me in the shower in the mornings. I love it that you call me for no reason at all just to say "I love you." I like taking care of you because you like taking care of me. I love that when I tell you that I need something you actually listen to what I am saying and do your best to make it happen. I like that you surround yourself with good friends. I love that family is important to you. You will never have to worry about the laundry, dishes, if the bills are on time, groceries, if dinner is on the table, or most any of the day to day around the house. I enjoy taking care of those things for you so we can enjoy each other when you get home. I don't want to waist anytime arguing about stupid things we cannot control. Let's just be happy for the rest of our life's. I love you husband.
2006-09-28 18:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Georgia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To win your wife over, show her attention, make her feel like she's the most important person in the world. Show her she's wanted, needed and appreciated. When u have arguments, listen and be understanding of her pt of view. Don't just blow her off as if what she's saying isn't important enough for u. If u can't agree on one thing, come to a compromise where u will both be happy with the outcome. It works both ways.
2006-09-28 18:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
an ideal husband should stand by your side,support what you believe in,have a sense of humor,be a loving father,be faithful,be there to talk to!!!now with arguments a wise husband doesn't get into them,or he says:you're right honey!!!i expect loyalty from him and respect and to back me up in return he has a loving,caring wife!!!what else can a guy want????
2006-09-28 18:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no idol or ideal husband. Everyone is different if you have a certain someone in mind and am trying to accommodate them. Ask them what THEIR ideal husband is like. Then learn what you can and can't do to accommodate them.
2006-09-28 18:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by CiCI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I crave attention. Not that he needs to be all over me 24-7 but just little things like asking me how my day went, texting me to say he loves me, etc. are HUGE in my book.
2006-09-28 18:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you fight about? Expect nothing. Accept everything
2006-09-28 18:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋