How do u keep a good man intrested in you..i'm pretty, smart and independant....What is wrong?!?!??!
2006-09-28 11:05:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trust me its not you its him. I'm quite sure you do all you can to keep this man happy. but men I mean boys lol just can't stay focus on one women. There insecure
2006-09-28 11:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Roc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably depends on who this man is. You've got to figure out what kind of a person he's looking for, in terms of the personality. But, in general, it helps to take the middle road. Neither behave like you are the smartest and most independent of them all, nor behave like you're helpless or desperate for a shoulder to lean on. If this person is looking for an equal partner, then don't try to outsmart him. Become a true friend to him first, then, if cares for you, things will move into the romantic side of the relationship naturally. Also, to keep this person interested, be yourself, be natural. Don't try to please him based on your ideas of who he might be looking for. If you want to change to win this person's heart, then it'll have to be forever. Overall, it's never a good idea to pretend, to step all over a person, or to overwhelm him in any way, if you're interested in developing a lasting relationship with him. In the end, if he does not give you a chance, after you do your share of work in the whole thing, then it's not worth pursuing such an insensitive man. Hope these suggestions help you.
2016-03-26 21:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a hot shower, shave your legs, make a drink for him and you. Swing from the chandelier, with a cute nightie on. If that don't work crack open a beer and watch the game with him.
2006-09-28 11:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, don't compromise who you are just to be with a man. if he's not into who you are now, he never will be. sex is fun but its not all there is to a relationship and it does get old after awhile. make sure you have other things in common too.
2006-09-28 11:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby because your predictable. keep him guessing dont give him all your love to soon or he'll leave your @ss dont call him for a wile make him call you make a date then skip out 1/2 befor for an "emergincie" dont play your games to close or he'll give up give him a little then take it away. keep him on his toes till he falls over for you. Then hes your puppy.
2006-09-28 11:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men do what they want to do. Don't try too hard or you'll be wasting your time.
If he knows you're interested, he's probably already moved on.
I'm serious.
2006-09-28 11:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be interested in him. Oh, and sex of course. Show him you are interested in him on a daily basis. Feelings follow actions. Act like you love him and he will return the favor....
2006-09-28 11:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it is before marriage, then don't show or give yourself to him fully, just tease him. Make him want to see the rest but don't show it.
If it is after marriage, then show and give him everything you got
2006-09-28 11:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably talk to much and say stupid thing. That is sure to drive a man away
2006-09-28 11:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to find out what really makes him tick. Check out the book, "The 5 Love Languages" - it really teaches you about your mate & what it takes to please him/her (and it's not always sex that does it!). Good Luck! :)
2006-09-28 11:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by amandey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋