How do u keep a good man intrested in you..i'm pretty, smart and independant....What is wrong?!?!??!
2006-09-28 11:05:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just be yourself....you just haven't came across the right one yet..........
2006-09-28 11:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It probably depends on who this man is. You've got to figure out what kind of a person he's looking for, in terms of the personality. But, in general, it helps to take the middle road. Neither behave like you are the smartest and most independent of them all, nor behave like you're helpless or desperate for a shoulder to lean on. If this person is looking for an equal partner, then don't try to outsmart him. Become a true friend to him first, then, if cares for you, things will move into the romantic side of the relationship naturally. Also, to keep this person interested, be yourself, be natural. Don't try to please him based on your ideas of who he might be looking for. If you want to change to win this person's heart, then it'll have to be forever. Overall, it's never a good idea to pretend, to step all over a person, or to overwhelm him in any way, if you're interested in developing a lasting relationship with him. In the end, if he does not give you a chance, after you do your share of work in the whole thing, then it's not worth pursuing such an insensitive man. Hope these suggestions help you.
2006-09-28 11:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is Mr. Right, then you will NOT have to do ANYTHING to "keep him interested". The right man will be interested in you, even if you were sitting on the potty, doubled over, sick, hair a mess, making an awful smell and just wanting to die. He will love you then, and see WAY beyond little things like that.
It's hard to tell someone going thru the ups & downs of early relationships to understand that we kiss alot of frogs before FINALLY a prince comes along and he really doesn't care what we wear, if we have makeup on, how our hair is (even bald!), how much we make, ANYTHING.
Because the Right Guy will love you
Just the Way you Are!
No conditions!
No promises!
No compromises!
Just love YOU YOU YOU!
2006-09-28 11:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have to work at keeping a man interested.If they aren't your with the wrong guys.Trying to alter who you are in order to accommodate anothers desires will only work for just so long anyway.Sooner or later your going to get sick of catering to him and he's not going to have a clue why.Then he'll be on here asking questions about woman who confuse men.Be yourself and let someone love you for you.
2006-09-28 11:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having to be someone your not is not the way to keep a man. If he is not "interested", most men will definitely not be interested in the fake you either, it's usually too obvious. You need to find a man that likes and cares for YOU, period.
2006-09-28 11:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats your number??? In relationships I have been in, the woman seems to want to do everything for me. I don't like that. I like to do most things myself, because I don't feel my woman is my slave and I can do for myself. Tell him briefly about your day and keep and open line of communication. Maybe you are too independent. Don't know. Guys like to feel that they can take care of you. You sound ok to me though.
2006-09-28 11:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by tko43078 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a hot shower, shave your legs, make a drink for him and you. Swing from the chandelier, with a cute nightie on. If that don't work crack open a beer and watch the game with him.
2016-03-18 02:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting into something he likes. You don't have to like it, but show a little interest in what he likes. You never know he might want to try something you are interested in.
2006-09-28 11:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most men like women who know how to spell properly. Don't claim to be smart if you cannot spell.
2006-09-28 11:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by babydollbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you girl. Does he have problems? Is he worth you. Possibly you should set your sights a bit higher
2006-09-28 11:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u r to indep- lean on him just a hair not a lot that will run him off but at the same time show him that you want him more than you need him. a lot of guys like to feel more wanted than needed show him that u love him and you want him to syay
2006-09-28 11:10:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋