My partner has a female friend, who he thinks a lot of, AS A FRIEND. I feel no threat from her. BUT, she is obviously very keen on him. There is lots I could write, but to cut a long story short, when I mention her interest to him, he honestly thinks I'm crazy. But every other person we know has noticed! Nobody else has said anything to him except me yet. How can I ask her to stop being so very attentive, without ruining their friendship?
2006-09-28 11:00:30 · 8 answers · asked by Dreamer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best thing to do it is tell her straight up how you fell about her. Maybe is only in your head, maybe she has really good intentions, or maybe she likes him more than a friend. Now you are the only one who can find out.Be nice with her, dont attack her with questions just tell her how u fell.
Good luck
2006-09-28 11:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Raluca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience with the other women who eventually split my husband from me for 15 years, I advise you cut it from the bud. You may trust your partner but a woman can manipulate a man if she wanted to attract him. We all say it is the man's fault to loose his head over the other woman. Some men are weak. Some knows their limit. I hope your partner knows where to draw the line with this woman. Since you are not married to your partner (you have not mentioned as husband)she got a chance to do what she want. So be on guard.
2006-09-28 18:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by shiningstar2808 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no business asking her to stop being so attentive...if she's a threat then your relationship wasn't very solid to begin with...if she's not a threat then why are you bothered?
Leave her be...she'll get the picture eventually and you won't end up looking jealous or insecure.
2006-09-28 18:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had to do that if she comes on to your man say something right then don't let it get by because it can hurt your love life .I had to tell my boyfriend that it bugs me when a friend asks like she wants him.
2006-09-28 18:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by nicole t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is irrelevant.If you are obsessed it's either you or him who has to resolve the situation.If you honestly believe he wont be tempted and this woman is truly his friend get over it or ask him flat out to relinquish his friend to accommodate your insecurities.
2006-09-28 18:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby those warning bells are ringing in your ears. You have already taken notice. So they next step is to watch him carefully and separate them, before she separates you.
2006-09-28 18:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is trustworthy then the question is moot. He won't touch her as long as he is with you and eventually she will move on to other things.
2006-09-28 18:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he LIKES the attention. Better be careful.
2006-09-28 18:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋