me and my boyfriend were going out for 3 months before he moved. we still email and call a lot but i really miss him. neither of us can drive and it has been 3 months since we have seen each other. can you offer any advice on how to deal?
2006-09-28 10:59:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Pray! Long distances are hard.. don't worry if it is meant to be it will happen. I was in one for more than a year but i was able to drive.. so i can't say i can totally relate.. but don't be heart broken if either wants to go their separate ways.. it happens
2006-09-28 11:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by cristinamendez02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only have one word of advice...... forget it and move on!
LD relationships are doomed to failure. Oh you start with good intentions then the phone calls start to dwindle and the emails slow down too. If you were able to drive sooner or later the trips would be dwindle as well. It becomes a chore. You start aking excuses why you can't call email or come for a visit.
Sad but true, your life changes, you meet new people and one day that person becomes nothing but a memory...
1 out of 100 work and 99 fail and chances are you'll be one of the 99.
Savor the memories and move on.
2006-09-28 11:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in contact with him no matter what. Remind him how much you miss him and love him and try and just be patient, once there is love between two persons that are apart they can't stay apart for long so just have faith.
2006-09-28 11:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ashanofy Frederick Dixon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a bus, train, plane... anything to get you there! You should both try to see each other at least every two months!
And start learning to drive!
2006-09-28 11:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure that u guys have ALOT OF TRUST in eachother cuz if u dont ur not gonna make it through this. long distnace relationships are hard to keep 2gether so make sure that u guys are strong enough to last. that's all i gotta say
2006-09-28 11:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by DJ Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to here this but that never works out belive me I have been their. Something will happen and one of you is going to like someone new.Sorry.
2006-09-28 11:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by nicole t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
amores de lejos, felices los cuatro
sorry to say, i just don't believe in long distance relationships. why don't you just find someone new.
2006-09-28 11:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by la jirafa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on sharing the little things in life! and remain faithfull!
2006-09-28 11:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by LIZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋