I've been married for a couple two months and I dont like my in-laws that much. We had a good relationship at first (before we got married) but now things aren't that special anymore.
I dont hate them, but I'm not their fan either.
2006-09-28 10:40:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope they are not jealous because I married my husband. I think they were "playing nice" so I can have a good impression about them. That's why they are acting like that now. Did I mention I'm not welcome at their house??
2006-09-28 10:54:53 · update #1
Just remember to be civil at all times. Even when they aren't. Your spouse may not approve of their behavior at times either, but tolerating them is a must. I inherited a "very interesting" mother in law.
I think the general sense we have of each other is we know we are not going to be close, but we play nice to keep get togethers peaceful.
2006-09-28 10:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual to not be fond of the inlaws...you just suck it up and be civil/polite to them and hopefully ya don't have to deal with them too often.
You married your spouse, but family is part of the deal so you've got to make the best you can out of it...as does your partner re: your family...
2006-09-28 10:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's YOUR responsibility to work on that relationship. You had best do it, too, if you want harmony in the family. MIL's just love daughters-in-law who make like they look up to them, and are nice to them, and not resentful of every little moment they get with their child.
You have taken their baby from them, so you owe it to be nice.
2006-09-28 10:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's okay because you married you're husband, not them. Just be polite and don't worry about it. As long as you love your husband, and he loves you then nothing else should matter.
2006-09-28 10:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by bessierush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to married life!!! Be nice to them no matter what, but stand your ground and make certain that your spouse stands up for you. It's you & spouse now, the inlaws need to be on the outside.... Good luck!!
2006-09-28 10:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance. Talk to your spouse and keep a common stance with regards to the in-laws. Don't let them divide you on issues.
2006-09-28 10:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married to your husband, not your in-laws... Liking your in-laws is a bonus, not a requirement.
2006-09-28 10:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just people you will have to tolerate no matter what. Just support your spouse and wear a fake smile around the inlaws..
2006-09-28 10:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dnt have to worry bout ur plastic inlaws besides u marry ur husband and not ur inlaws, thier not the one who will give food on ur plate so i dnt matter u and ur husband can live without them..
2006-09-28 11:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, that is perfectly normal and fine. You don't have to love them, only put up with them and be respectful to them. I wouldn't worry yourself too much.
2006-09-28 10:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋