Oops I did it again falling for my ex boyfriend again I don't think this is surpose to be happening again It's over..I was the one who broke up with him
Why is this happening to me
2006-09-28 10:36:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Your headline wasn't a question.......stupidity is what's happening to you.
2006-09-28 10:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Hernandez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are most comfortable with what is most familiar to us. This holds true in healthy and unhealthy relationships. Perhaps you are just afraid of the unknown? Either way, my dear, it doesn't sound like love---but fear. So take some time to think about your situation. What were your reasons for ending this relationship? I'm sure you had some good reasons. Ask yourself if you are afraid of being alone? (It's okay to be afraid.--We've all been there) Then start filling up your time with activities, friends, and family you enjoy: hiking, reading, volunteering, whatever. It will get you out there and interacting with more people. Learn more about yourself and the world. As you become better acquainted with yourself, you will be able to know for sure what you want for yourself--relationships, inclusive. You get to decide what kind of life you make for yourself. Feelings can be overwhelming and intense, but with time you will develop the maturity to handle such feelings. --Lastly, I encourage you to consider your perspective on your life. Every choice we make has a consequence: good, bad, or indifferent. Be mindful of the decisions YOU make, learn from them and do better next time. Hope this has been helpful. Good luck.
2006-09-28 11:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Just one woman's view 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to think logically what you want in a man and try to see if Logically your ex matches what you truly want in the person that you would stay with for life. If he doesn't then the best and kindest thing for both of you is to let him go and tell your friends why your doing it and get them to help you. If he truly matches what you want then stick with him and don't give up even if you have foolish arguments but, definitely don't try to have them. :)Hope all goes well.
2006-09-28 10:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Fun2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you must of still had feelings for him>y did u dump him in the first place?If it was because some1 told you 2 then yd u listen or if it was because he was a jerk than just tell him to not act like such a jerk and give it another try if he is still acting like a jerk than find some1 else to like and youll probably forget bout him.................its worth a try?
2006-09-28 10:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by I<3CB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a girl, and girls can't help but follow their hearts sometimes, if he's the one for you, you should be back, if not you will learn that in time and you will be strong enough to leave when the time is right!
2006-09-28 10:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the major note is NIGERIA. That definately skill scam. extremely some Nigerian human beings attempt to con human beings out of money and trust it or no longer, some human beings get sucked into it. I dont imagine its something to stress about see you later as you dont reply.
2016-11-25 01:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have some unmet need you get met when you are with him. Does he treat you alright? If not dump him again and stay away from him.If he treats you good then more power to you.
2006-09-28 10:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the record, nothing "just happens TO you", you make it happen, in a sense. This wouldn't even be happening, if you didn't want it to.
2006-09-28 10:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is happening TO you, YOU'RE doing it. Why not instead ask
'why do I keep behaving so stupidly?'
2006-09-28 10:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you...it happened because you wanted it to . you broke up with him..
2006-09-28 10:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋