The answer to any question that has you making a decision is always I don't know.
What do you want to do tonight? I don't care-whatever you want to do is fine.
What do you want for dinner? I don't care-you choose.
What movie should we rent? Umm, It doesn't matter to me, you pick.
Then when we pick and it's not exacly good-it's our fault.
You tell me you don't care what we watch on TV and I put on football and then you have the nerve to get upset.
Do your husband a favor. When he asks you this question...Tell him an answer or at least make a suggestion.
What do you want for dinner? Mexican sounds good-do you feel like Mexican?
What movie do you want to see? That depends...do you feel like seeing a chick flick?
What do you want to watch on TV? The new Greys Anatomy is tonight.
Anyways, any reason to why you are incapable of makign a decision would be great....
(BTW-Hint Hint:Your not going to hurt our feelings by choosing something we didn't like.
2006-09-28 10:34:46 · 17 answers · asked by . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Timothy, your wrong and annoying and are looking into this much more than it needs to be. Thanks Dr.
A simple-what should we do for lunch question. She'e been like this for the 10 plus years I've known her.
2006-09-28 10:40:01 · update #1
I have never asked such silly questions from my hubby and he never did so too. We are in love since our high school due to which understanding level have been 100 / 100. We know about each other what, when and where are the requirements.
2006-09-28 10:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sheena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish most women would understand that. It does annoy your significant other/husband. But, you are wrong about it not hurting their feeling's. It does. That is why I let my husband have the TV, the dinner choice, etc. When he asks what I want, I tell him. If he doesn't like it, I will hear about it. In my house, it is some time's much easier to say I don't care. I just went through with that for dinner. He wouldn't make up his mind, when I made a suggestion he got bent out of shape. It's easier to let the man decide. I don't care what is on TV, I don't care what we eat, I don't care what he wants to do. But watch out when you ask him for something and he doesn't want to do it. That is not a good thing either.
2006-09-28 10:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by gin 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i once used to suggest to my husband what to do and where to go and what to eat. Over the past damn 10 years he doesn't care what i want and don't want. He could care less what I want as its all about what he wants. He just asks so that it doesn't look like he cares that he's rude about it when i suggest something. He yells and screams adn throws a fit sooo I just gave up whatever the spoiled brat wants to do. And mostly i just ignore him anymore anyways. We always end up doing what he wants to do anyways regardless of what i want to do, It is much easier letting him make all the mistakes though i am still blamed for them!!
2006-09-28 10:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you have already answered this. when you said I put on football and you get upset. She is simply trying to please you because all of her half suggestions are rejected and she know you will steamroller her anyway. You must be one heck of a nice guy that even when she is trying to make you happy, you simply come back with criticism again. Get off her case and give her a go. Go and do something nice for her
2006-09-28 10:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hint-Hint-some of us make enough decisions in a day to last us the rest of our lives. Therefore, if we ask you to make a decision, is it really going to hurt you? Not all of us really care what we have for dinner and some of us even like football. Therefore, quit whining and decide!!!
2006-09-28 10:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Um, to your question,
"When he asks you this question..." "any reason to why you are incapable of making a decision"
Meaning she must provide YOU with the answers to all YOUR questions? Or SHE is indecisive? about ... ? What was your question?
2006-09-28 10:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider myself to be more easy-going than indecisive. I generally don't care what we do, eat, or watch. However, if there is something I DON'T want to do, then I'll definitely speak up.
2006-09-28 10:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by bessierush 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, not every women is like this. There are many independent women like myself that are completely satisfied with making their own decisions.
2006-09-28 10:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know...i'm a women and that is very annoying for me, there are many girls like that, but not all of us are like that.
I guess they are that way because they don't feel sure about theirselves and are afraid of not being liked if they suggest something their man don't agree with... but if that is so with your girl, why you keep asking her??
2006-09-28 10:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by fireangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Us wives are only trying to put you first and make you happy. The minute we start telling you, you will just accuse of of controlling everything. Enjoy it.
2006-09-28 15:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋