How can I tell her that ppl are starting to call her names like whore, ho, etc........? How can I give her advice on laying low with boys for awhile. I mean it's not like the guys like her..she isnt beautiful but she isnt ugly either.
2006-09-28 10:00:56 · 18 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell her its not cute
2006-09-28 10:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've fallen in the idea of loving him more than actually loving him. Because before you didn't care for him after he didn't speak to you for one week. You didn't really start having all these emotions until he stopped talking to you. You're over thinking everything he does. Like staring at you in class all the time. Is it because you feel like that you two are the only ones in class room? If a guy likes you he doesn't ignore you. If he likes you he will do it in public. You've even stated you've decided you loved him only when he didn't tell you what he had said. Obviously it wasn't that important since he didn't tell you. Because if it were he would have called you or said something the first day you got back to see each other. I hate to break it to you but he doesn't seem to have the intense feelings you seem to have. I know this is probably what you don't want to hear. But, don't waste your time on someone who can't return the feelings that you do. Everyone deserves someone who will appreciate them. Not ignore or play games.
2016-03-18 02:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she like a best friend? Start out with "Do you like every bf that you are dating each week?" Does she force them into loving her? Say " I'm sorry, but if you want guys to like you, don't show it off, and besides is it really worth having a different bf each week?You ave to be with a guy that you know you will date more than a week, more than a month, you don't have much of a life, plan stuff out before you do it. Think before you do anything." Maybe that will help you.
2006-09-28 10:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend never had much attention from her father and now she's looking for male attention from wherever she can get it. Unfortunatley, the kind of attention she's getting is negative attention (though she might think otherwise). Tell her straight up what's going on and let her know that you're concerned about her health (if she's sexually active).
2006-09-28 10:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by teacherhelper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably has a low self esteem and this is the only thing making her feel good about herself. Just tell her that people are calling her names and if she still does not stop then just don't waste your time because shes just going to keep acting the same way. Since you hang around her people might start to think your the same way so watch out for the haters
2006-09-28 11:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by livindacrazylife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply be honest and tell her whats going on like this say "(insert name), I think you should know that people are going around calling you some unflattering names. Im your friend and care about your feelings. I know it must hurt you so is there any way I can help you out and change their words.
2006-09-28 11:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a hotmail adress....maybe she would like to erotic webcam with me.....
She's a whore, looking at hger future, she 's not or barely gonna graduate. Later that year, try stripping at the club, later on......be a girl of a pimp.....thats reality baby. Other wise.....give her a good reason why she should stop flirting all the time.
2006-09-28 10:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by I agree... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because she flirts with lots of guys doesnt mean she is a whore. and the way u talk about her doesnt make u look like a very good friend to her. if she start sleeping around then u should talk to her. u should give her ur advice but still be there for her as a friend
2006-09-28 10:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dunno i didnt went out with two guys last year and i got called a slut and didnt even kiss either of them its a tough topis,umm maybe say, Dude we need to talk, ive been hearing ppl calling you a slut because you go out with a new guy every week, and i dont agree but you dont want that rep, so maybe lay off the guys for while, and if she gets mad say, well since your my friend i thought i would tell you so you would no ppl were talking about you but nest time, i wont. she should relize you were only tryin to help and if not then maybe she wasnt a great friend.
2006-09-29 10:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In three days, when all of us are done answering this question, let her read everyones response. Some people are naturally "flirts", it is just in their nature, and then their are those who take it beyond just flirting and deserve the reputation they earn for themselves. She obviously is seeking attention, she just doesn't know their are other ways to get it.
2006-09-28 10:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she wouldnt be called that if she would stop jumping from one man to the next.
sadly to say my friend is like that and now pregnant with twins and they could be the child of 6 different guys she slept with..that is the consequence you get, tell her she really needs to get her priorities straight
2006-09-29 13:33:35 · answer #11 · answered by Jen L-Baby #1 due Nov 15, 2010 ! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋