I worked with this person for over a year & during this time she made it VERY clear that she was attracted to me. She also admitted having "experiences" in the past so obviously didn't have a problem with a perons sexuality.
We got on really great together but I decided to resign from my job as i didn't want to make things complicated. I told her by text my feelings for her & she didn't even reply.
I found out from a mutual friend/ex worker she told every1 at work.
This was five months ago now & i saw her for the 1st time last week. She smiled & said hi.
I'm devestated that i have lost her as a friend. Even though i feel so betrayed I just wish she would have given me the chance to explain. When it happened i did send a letter apologising.
Why has she rejected me even as a friend? I miss her so much, but still feel confused to why she reacted this way.
Even if i have to wait a long time i will, but is there a way of ever putting things right between us again?
2006-09-28 09:54:23 · 4 answers · asked by onebrokensoul25 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sure, but time is the only way. Just remember that you want things to be ok. When she grows up and is at that certain stage in her life to where she can see what a valuable friend means, then she will be willing to be friends again. She will also realize how stupid she is acting.
2006-09-28 09:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Metacoma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, but it was a mistake for you to resign your job because of something which may or may not happen. Put this behind you and find someone more worthy of your love.
2006-09-28 16:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by gerbiltamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost sounds like she didnt get your message...or is a back stabber. It is hard to tell. I suggest that if you see her again in person that you go up and ask her if she got your message and what happened.
2006-09-28 17:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, One of you is a pervert! get over it.
2006-09-28 16:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋