2006-09-28 08:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by robertapdixon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would bet that you are a shy wall flower; probably attractive, but not aware of it; so withdrawn that you don't shine. You are probably fairly young, younger than 32? If I am right, guess what? Life changes after 30ish. You get tired of not being noticed (in fact, you are just noticing that you are beautiful).
Once we get in our 30's, we are beautiful, and others start to notice us. We are in our prime, our bodies are as good as it's ever going to get unless we are a work-out-aholic!
Our personalities become more outgoing (the education kicks in), we present ourselves in a more mature manner.
So, be patient, your turn is coming; if you are a late bloomer, it's ok, too.....because the REAL people are more concerned with who you are on the inside than on the outside.
2006-09-28 09:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Donnalah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that your around loads of people but not actually interacting with any of them. But the good news is I'm sure you done lots of observing and have an idea of who you would like to get to know and be friends with. If your having trouble socializing with your peers, try getting to know one person at a time. Do simple things like say good morning each day, or occasionally complimenting that persons hair or outfit. If your in school or work and have a question in your head don't keep it inside, ask someone for their opinion. You will be amazed how many great conversations get started just by asking a question. The more you talk to people the more comfortable you become around them and & before you know it your friends. Hope this helps. Smile
2006-09-28 16:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to socialize with the people around you? If not, that could be why you feel lonely. A doctor can tell you if you have depression. That could also cause you to feel lonely.
2006-09-28 16:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you don't socialize or look fun. I feel noticed in a croud cuz I WANT to be noticed, but I'm also a b*tch, so that makes me unapproachable. People find me very intimidating. So either your intimidating, or to timid, neither is all that good. Look friendly, have some self-esteem, people notice that. Act proud to be who you are, and people will adore you
2006-09-28 15:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the ppl you are around aren't the ppl for you..try getting some new and interesting friends that are interested in some of the same things you are.
2006-09-28 16:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Criddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have some drepression. Go to the docotrs and find out.
2006-09-28 15:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by majesticwife 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋