Like, whenever me or my friends get another boyfriend, she always tell them things we dont want them to know. and I;ve been going out with a guy for 3 days.. and she walked out with me and my boyfriend when he had to go we didnt hug, and my friend goes "what no hug?" and Im like we've only been going out for 3 days and she said on monday.. you better give him a hug. how do I tell her to stop without hurting her feelings?
2006-09-28 08:37:30 · 4 answers · asked by sarah♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her that you do things on your own time. When I am ready to hug him I will. Thank you for your concern, but I will decide when to hug him.
2006-09-28 08:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bite her head off... otherwise you'll end up listening to her tell you "it's ok just sleep with him" what's the diff? stand up for yourself.. besides if you don't want to hug a guy, you're sending him a message by not doing it..an important message that says ""respect my space!!"""... -m
2006-09-28 15:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by MAX POWER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she needs to get her feelings hurt, shes hurting your feelings right? tell her the way she does things in her relationships doesn't mean you have to do them the same way in your relationships.
2006-09-28 15:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by imissyou_iluvyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't........... just tell her to stop because you feel that she is being pushy and this is your bf not hers,............ so you will take it as slow with him as you and him want to. You have to be blunt if you really want her to back off............. I'm sorry, and good luck. Blessed be
2006-09-28 15:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋