We are here from down south. we been together for one yr. and in the middle of the realastionship we both felt that it was not going to work out.But now Ican't get rid of him.He has no family friends and part of me feels oblgated to him for some reason.
2006-09-28 08:32:19 · 20 answers · asked by NEWORLEAMS220 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The only person you have to make happy is yourself. You are not responsible for any other person's happiness. Talk with him and tell him you just need to move on and then DO IT!!
2006-09-28 08:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough..but you can't just drop him if that was the case. Help him get used to where ever you are. You can still be friends with him can't you..or no.? I'm looking at it like if that were my son. I wouldn't want him to be alone in some strange place..you are all he knows there right? Then why are you looking at it like you have to get rid of him..is there some sort of hurry. If I knew someone in that situation I'd help.
2006-09-28 15:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should put him in the friend zone. Explain that your lives are taking different directions and you love him but are no longer (never were) in love with him. Tell him you still want to stay close and hope you will always be friends.
2006-09-28 15:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really don't want to be with him, by not saying goodbye, you're giving him the impression you're not serious about it. He'll thank you later for "being" up front and honest one day when he meets someone he "is" attracted to. So just tell him how it is, and get on with your lives. Life is way to short to not be honest about it.
Good luck.
2006-09-28 15:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not obligated to him. He is a big boy, and it is somewhat conceided of you to believe that you leaving him would be devastating. I'm sure he would rather you be honest with him, than to continue to be with him when your heart isn't in it.
You need to be honest, and then move on. You DO owe him that!
2006-09-28 15:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no, ur just hurting urself in the long run. just let it go. u know wha tu have to do, all u have to do is do it. its not fair to either of u to stay with someone out of ptiy. how would u feel if someone did that to u? ur not obligated to do anyything u dont want to do, its all up to u. ur elongating the process.
2006-09-28 15:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a key, change the locks. When he calls on the phone, let the answering machine pick up all his messages.
2006-09-28 15:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Constitution 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let gilt keep you tied with this guy. You have the right to
be happy. Move on , enjoy life. This is also the best for him.
2006-09-28 15:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u sure u want to get rid of him..?
Dr Bad
(waiting for my first 10 points)
2006-09-28 15:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be really nice 2 him and say that u used to like him but now u don't then tell him u still want to be friends with him!
2006-09-28 16:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by Whit E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋