Partner coz there's no such thing as 50-50. Either a little bit higher or lower in every decision you make?
2006-09-28 08:30:44 · 15 answers · asked by javo 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Me and my partner have a 50/50 Neither of us make decisions that effect the other with out discussion. Compromise is 50/50 sometimes his way wins out becasue he is so logical some times mine does because I am so intuitive. This is why we make a great pair I am strong where he is weak he is strong where I am weak. You have to learn when to lean on the other and when to take the lead and let him lean on you.
2006-09-28 08:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I prefer for BOTH of us to make suggestions and then BOTH of us talk out the final decision. Yea i love when things go my way...im human and even more important...im a woman. But ahh haaa...so is my girlfriend. So u gotta do a lotta compromising and convincing and sumtimes u just gotta give up and throw in the towel!!!
2006-09-28 15:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there was a way not to have to make decisions, I'd take it. But I do disagree with you, while we never keep score we're each open to the others suggestions, and neither of us have ever use a derogatory word or phrase to the other.
2006-09-28 15:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make the majority of decisions, but I make sure to consider the other's wishes. Even when doing what my partner wants, I'm in control, and she wants it that way.
2006-09-28 15:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I prefer Joe to take the lead in most of our major decisions. He is more logical than me, I am more emotional. We each provide something the other cannot. I do all the cooking and cleaning and house wifey stuff. He takes care of the lawn, does the bill paying and worries about our financial future.....
however at night.....well that is another store, I am NO ONES little women in bed!
2006-09-28 15:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
you both bring different things to the relationship that is what makes it so special, you should treat each other the way you would like to be treated, no theres no way to put a number on it, i do agree that if you can't agree on a decision such as what to have for dinner, you should take turns LUV Kathy
2006-09-28 15:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If your relationship is about keeping score with who does what and what isn't fair, you won't last for very long.
We both know our strengths and weaknesses and share the lead as needed to make it work.
Pride (otherwise known as personal vanity) has no place in an actual partnership. You do what needs to be done, and the one that is best at the job steps up.
2006-09-28 16:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Actually, I find that it averages out to 50/50. We each have our own strengths and weaknesses, and our own issues that we feel very strongly about. It helps that we have a lot of respect for each other, and love to hash things out with each other in a debate. (Debate makes awesome foreplay! :-)
2006-09-28 15:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a G0Y; our relationships are cornerstone out of mutual respect, adoration, love, loyalty, and discreetness; all on an equal bases. Therefore, no I don't or would like to be boss or dominated by a bossy person sexually.
2006-09-28 15:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In the past things have usually balanced out.
2006-09-29 22:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by emanmetal911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋