I have this friend, well i say friend but i know he absolutely hates my guts. anyway, knowing that he hates me i always want to be around him constantly. He hits me sometimes when he gets annoyed with me but I don't care cos i'd rather be hit every now and then as long as i can hang around him.
He hates the way I dress and my music and always says I'm disgusting looking but i don't care. i admit I don't have alot of friends.
Do i have a serious problem or am i just completely sad.
2006-09-28 08:08:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No! there is nothing wrong with you at all!!! I went through that stage... and I was emo and ****... Not many friends No boyfriends... Hell I didnt have my first kiss till I was 18! And my first boyfriend. hahaha THis kid does not sound like he is to much of a friend. You are a human and you deserve to be treated better than that. Dont be his little puppy dog and come and go as he wishes... You are better than that. Sounds like you are kinda shy.... Maybe you should try going to shows or something... Thats how I started making friends and got my first boyfriend.
Hope I could help. =) oh and good luck!
2006-09-28 08:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you want. If you want a friend who doesn't hit you and likes your taste in clothes and music, then you should probably get some new friends. Join a evening class that fits in with something you're interested in, there should be people there who are interested in the same things as you.
But if you just want your friend to stop being mean to you, simply explain your problem.
2006-09-28 08:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jonti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have a problem. Are you trying to be accepted by him? or do you just want to be able to say that you have friends? Either way don't sweat it. I've been in the same boat and the worst part about it is if your emo then you proably won't have very many friends. Some people are scared because we don't hide our emotions.
Best of Luck,
Kayla
2006-09-28 10:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Emo Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm i don't think you are the one with the problem, he is. Stay clear of him, there is no excuse for him hitting you because of his own personal issues, probably really insecure. If you feel he hates you, then shut the door on him and get out there and find real friends, ones that won't put you down, and give you the respect you deserve.
2006-09-28 12:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by rikerlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you honestly have some problems here, you might be addictied to Massochism.
You desperately want this guys to like you, but he doesn't. Be ok with rejection. Be ok with it because it's going to help understand what you have control over vs what you don't.
If someone doens't hire you for a job, what are you going to do keep showing up to work hoping they'll hire you some day?
2006-09-28 08:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a major crush on this person, sexually or otherwise. Its pretty common to crave what you don't/ can't have - its a challenge. However its a lose lose situation which will destroy your self-esteem. Nobody needs to be hit or insulted like that. Try to find a friend who cares about you.
2006-09-28 08:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Fill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not sad, but you do have a problem. It sound harsh, but you should 'get a grip'. To have a relationship it is a two way thing, you will end up worse off and very unhappy!
2006-09-28 08:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Phil H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stay away from him. .you need to find you some things to do. join some activities .find some things that interest you. more importantly change your surroundings. you should never ever let another person hit you no matter what.stand up for yourself , it will make you feel better.good luck!!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 08:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowin ur an emo, move on to new ppl, hang around with ppl who liks da sme music, games... etc.
2006-09-28 08:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by tezzadaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you, but from what you have just written you sound like a complete TIT
2006-09-28 08:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by Thornsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋