2006-09-28 07:41:52 · 16 answers · asked by wildcat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am waiting till after marriage to have sex with my man because I know that is the best choice. We have been together for almost six years
2006-09-28 07:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by ilove_twilightmovie08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in a relationship.. wow....
see I view casual dating as a non-relationship type of dating and I've had sex numerous times in a casual dating situation.
What it really comes down to is:
1 - are you ready to have sex? Have you thought about everything that becoming sexually active entails? have you thought about STDs? Birth control (sponge, pill, patch, shot, etc)? have you thought throug what you would do if you became pregnant? what are your feelings on abortion or adoption? have you seen a dr to get a checkup and any birth control prescriptions you may need?
2- are you responsible enough to be sexually active? do you carry your own supply of condoms (don't rely on the guy to remember)? do you practice safe sex (alway using a condom and using it properly)?
3- have you and your potential lover discussed your feelings on pregnancy and what you would do should you become pregnant before you wanted?
If all of the above has been done.. then its just a matter of time.. it will feel right then just enjoy it!!!!
However.. if you can't do the above then you need to not start having sex...
2006-09-28 14:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wildcat ,ever time i was in a relationship ,the times ranged from a few minutes to 3 months...and ill tell you the relationship that started out in a few minutes went as long as a year..but today protection is the main thing..sleep safe
2006-09-28 14:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really and truly depends on the relationship and how comfortable you are with your mate. I generally wait for a bit to find out if this is a person I want to get intimate with.
I see too often these women who get with these men real quick, end up pregnant and having to deal with a man that they don't really care for, for the next 18-19 years.
2006-09-28 14:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to wait until he proposes marriage and gives you a ring.
I don't think it's worth risking AIDS, std's, herpes, warts, unwanted pregnancy, emotional turmoil, confusion and feeling used with a person who isn't willing to take our relationship and my body/mind/soul seriously.
(yep, when I would tell guys that, many of them would stop calling, so it was obvious they weren't that into me. Then I was glad to not be having sex with them! The guys who really care will respect that. The others will find someone else to have sex with. No big loss)
2006-09-28 14:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It defeninetly depends on the people involved in the relationship. Usually though its best to wait because most of the time strong feelings can develop.
2006-09-28 14:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush into anything. Talk to your bf/gf. Its the best thing if you have never had sex make sure you wait and make the person respect that. You will kno when your ready hope ma advice helps x
2006-09-28 14:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by moi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you feel you are ready, it depends, some people wait a month, a week, a day, it all depends on how much you trust the guy or girl
2006-09-28 14:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by drea6996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I needed to know that I loved my partner, and he loved me. No sex until we knew we were in love. Then I knew I wasn't going to make any stupid decisions I would regret, and I wasn't being used for a quick fling.
2006-09-28 14:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he asked me out 3 times when he hadnt been drinkin i went out with him n he hasnt left yet..been 13 yrs..(been married 13 yrs) got married a month after being together oh n that night gave it up to him 4 times
2006-09-28 14:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋