i had this boyfriend one time that said i was fat. i was smaller then, than i am now...right now i am wearing pants size 5/6 in juniors and there baggy. before i stupid boyfriend i thought i looked pretty nice, i still think i look nice but that one boyfriend made it to were i could never look in the morror the same way again. i don't want to stop eating, i love to eat.... what do i do??????
2006-09-28 07:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by davis chick 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
If you are in a 5/6, then there is no way you are fat!
Not only are you NOT fat, you are pretty slender too.
Do nothing to change your body, just change the way you listen to what other people think about you. If some jerk of a guy says you are fat, ugly, or anything else, ignore him.
Confidence comes from the inside, and you shouldn't ever let anything others say get you down. All that matters is if you are happy with yourself.
Hey, if you really want to feel better about yourself, go to the mall or Wal-Mart! Just about anywhere there are a lot of people, you will see plenty that look worse than you do :-)
2006-09-28 08:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5/6 is baggy? You have no problem with being fat. In my opionion anywhere from 3/4-7/8 looks good. Don't stop eating. If you want to get healthier just workout 20 min at a time 3-4 days a week and cut out all junk food and cokes. Add some extra fruits and veggies and you will be fine.
2006-09-28 07:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by pebble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey hush a 5/6 is baggy??? I know we all have our personal goals where weight is concerned but I've learned it's not really about what size you are but how you feel and work the skin your in. NEVER let a man tell you something different than you feel is right I know you watch TV and can see the direction the world is headed (child obesity etc...) but I suggest you look in the mirror constantly love yourself and listen to yourself when you think you look good and when your feeling fat. I think you should find what makes you happy what weight looks good on you and then when you can look in the mirror and love what you see (which is what I do @ 5'2" 135 in a size 5-7 tight!) then you will be able to let comments like that roll off your shoulder and not hurt your heart....in short your fine and fabulous...so start loving it!
2006-09-28 08:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by klovecalistyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Push his comments to the back of your mind. If he thinks you're fat then he probably has some sort of complex. To me, a person that wears a size 16 and up is heavy or a person that is 30 pounds overweight is heavier, but definitely not a size 5 or 7. I'm a size 5 and people tell me I'm thin! Go ahead and eat, if you know it's not true then it most likely isn't true.
2006-09-28 07:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by H.L.A. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on! why are you letting yourself be put down by a dude? You're just letting yourself become yet another girl that a guy takes down. you're wearing a 5/6 get over yourself! I wear a 7 typically and people swear I would wear a 4, I have big hips. If it was tight on you then it may have looked bad, but if anyone squeezes into anything it'll look bad. you said before that you thought you looked alright so you know you do. don't let an asshole pollute your unique mind. Get over what this one guy said.
2006-09-28 07:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to raise that self-esteem and confidence. If you love who you are, how you're life is at this moment, all the aspects of your life, friends, family... nothing else matters. Accept what you have, if YOU and ONLY YOU aren't satisfied with it, start alittle excercise routine for yourself. Now excercise doesn't mean running for an hour, lifting weights and all that garbage. Going for simply walks and bike rides would suffice. Watch what you eat and how much of it you're consuming. Simple things can make all the difference in the world.
Start doing things for yourself you know? Self-sufficent. Enlist the help of your best friend. Boys come and go, don't let them get to you.
Email me if you need some more advice, I'm 17 so I know alittle bit of what I'm talking about, lol.
2006-09-28 07:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care what he thinks? I acctually think you rather skinny. But don't go getting all frantic over that either. Just keep eating and exercise at least 30 mins a day, 5 times a week to keep healthy. You body will go to whatever shape it is supposed to. Very good advice about eating healthy though, eat greens everyday. Brocolli is awesome.
I'm sure you do look good and you shouldn't let what one person out of, how many, billions of people out there says make you think badly of yourself.
2006-09-28 07:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by whiteasacorpse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat away girl! I eat all I want and remain the same weight. Trick is to exercise! Try to go for a walk,play tennis ,swim or whatever you're into after you eat a big meal.
Please don't pay attention to negative remarks from other people. Some peep will say bad,mean things to you even when they don't mean it.
2006-09-28 07:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by Bones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fuc* Him.Girl u have to look good if ur n a size 5/6.Im n a 7 and Im 5'6 w/two kids and my youngest is 6wks so to hell w/him and I know I look good.Look dont let no man have control over how u feel about yourself.He had selfesteem issues so he tried to target yu and make u fel how he feels on the outside.That is what they do.So na I wouldnt pay him any attention and trust me he feels like shi* on the inside and u need to call him and tell him u figured him out.Loser!~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 07:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You EAT!! Please Please Please ( Im begging of you) do NOT let one mans perspective knock you off of your right mind. You are your own woman, You were born with your ow mind, your own likes & dislikes and your own ability to feel comfortable in your own skin. The only reason why he made such a big deal out of anything is because he's insecure himself. If you thought you looked nice before, you should get back to where you were. Pleasing him is not worth losing your own self-confidence.
2006-09-28 07:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋