please help!
2006-09-28 07:24:16 · 42 answers · asked by booboo_305 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well i just wanted to know ..and see what every1 thought because she isn't going to have a aabortion....abyway she is going to have twins
2006-09-28 07:40:59 · update #1
Do not abort. My wife and I have been trying to have a child for a while. We would love to have one of our own or even adopt. There are many out there like us. Give the baby a chance; others are depending on it.
2006-09-28 07:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think it is completely wrong to get an abortion at any time let alone 5 months along. The baby is completely formed it just needs to gain wait and do some more growing/developing. If your sister truly doesn't want the child, she should start considering adoption. I have twin sisters and wouldn't know them today if their biological mother would have had an abortion. Do not let her get this done. That child is just as much human as we are. The baby is innocent. And remember, there are people out there that aren't so fortunate to be able to get pregnant. This could be a blessing for someone else.
2006-09-28 07:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by kaspalla3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand you cannot get an abortion after 10 or 12 weeks I think or somewhere right around there because the baby is too far along. Right now she's already halfway there, why would she even consider terminating a pregnancy at this stage? Consider adoption! Unless it's medically necessary for her survival then it's not an option.
2006-09-28 07:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by justwondering 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i would not recommend it. If she really doesn't want the baby i would start looking into adaoption and go that route. 5 months is a little to far along to do that. I understand there are certain circumstances that you don't want to keep a baby and abortion seems the way to go. But at least give the baby a chance at life they didn't do anything wrong. Tell her to look into adaoption. She might find out that she would like that idea better.
Good Luck
2006-09-28 07:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her get an abortion! You want to see the baby dont you? If you want to be an aunt then dont let her do it thats sad she shouldnt have had a baby in the first place. If she goes threw with the birth and still doesnt want it then tell her to go to an adoption agency, many couples cant have babys but want to adopt. That baby is already a person she will be a murderer
2006-09-28 07:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm concerned, no. It's not the baby's fault your sister isn't ready to have a kid or whatever. But it's not my right to say she can't have an abortion. I just don't think she could. She's only got a few months to go. If she doesn't want it, give it up for adoption to someone who will.
2006-09-28 07:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by made_of_spam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO! That is a BABY now, not some embryo. Is that even legal? If she wanted an abortion she should have thought of that months ago. She's more than half way there. Encourage her to continue along, and if she does not want the child tell her to consider adoption.
2006-09-28 07:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by newmom06 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The farther along you are into a pregnancy the more risk you are taking. At this point I would say she shouldn't (I am pro-choice). It's up to her. Good Luck because this can't be an easy thing to consider. Their must be a lot of cons for not wanting to keep the baby. Has she considered adoption? Their are so many people in this world who can't have children and would love to take care of this child.
2006-09-28 07:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by kristina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! no! no! is too late now if she wanted to get one she was supposed to do it before 4 months, tell her just to have the baby and give it up for adoption, having an abortion is very dangerous and now that she is 5 month pregnant even more she could die! if you love your sister dont let her do it!
2006-09-28 07:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by its_me 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋