I have always often wondered this. Sometimes I last for hours, sometimes I only make 30 min. but does the woman orgasm at the same time, or before or after. If so, does she just go along with it even after shes climaxed?
2006-09-28 07:21:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
First, simultaneous orgasm may be neat and all, but it doesn't happen very often. Most women require more than just intercourse to orgasm and when you're just pumping away working on your own orgasm, you're not likely doing what it takes for her to have hers.
Second, if you can't tell when a woman has had an orgasm, then you probably didn't give her one.
Third, yes, unlike men, women can keep going after they've orgasmed. I think a good policy for men should be to see to their partner's pleasure first and see to their own second; a woman is rarely going to orgasm after you because once you've got yours, you usually stop doing anything remotely orgasm-inducing (no, snoring doesn't count!)
2006-09-28 08:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can have many orgasms in one lovemaking session. They can be one after another or a few minutes apart. But most women orgasm while the guy is if he presses up against you and hits the right spot, it also depends on position. And some woman do not feel open enough to be vocal about it, some scream so there is no doubt she was satisfied.
2006-09-28 07:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Denise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can last for hours?! Who are you, Sting?? lol Some couples can orgasm at the same time but that kind of simultaneous orgasming takes a bit of cooperation. A lot of times a woman will climax before you do, then she will continue on until you've done. Ask your partner - they will give you much more specific details than such a general forum as this one!
2006-09-28 07:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men orgasm way before women are even thinking about orgasm, in fact most women are not able to have an orgasm from intercourse at all and they need some other form of manual release.
2006-09-28 07:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you are saying in fact, is that your going along doing what you need and like to do and just expect the woman you are with to orgasm at some point during.
I'm sorry to say that it just doesn't work that way. Different women need different approaches and techniques to help them "get there".
She needs to tell you what you need to do to help her orgasm. It just doesn't happen by just pounding away.
I'm sorry to say that the very fact that you are asking this question says that your probably the only one having an orgasm.
2006-09-28 07:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possible, sure, but really not the norm. Usually one or the other goes first, and that may or may not start off the other one. Generally better to get the female to orgasm a few times before the guy does, since guys tend to fire off and go limp quickly.
2016-03-18 02:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women can have multiple orgasms. Sometimes you climax together but sometimes you don't and that's where the multiple orgasm thing works. That's my take on it anyways.
2006-09-28 07:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by SmartyPants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, women seem to have more orgasm, then men. But men seem to be able to have an orgasm faster.
2006-09-28 07:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can, but it varies from woman to woman.
Some women it takes awhile before she climaxes, you really have to work at it. Others can *** with only a few mins in to activity.
You just have to get to know your partner to find out.
2006-09-28 07:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by girl_in707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can time it together, which takes a lot of practice, and it is fun. Otherwise, a woman doesn't just c u m because her man does. A woman should always c u m 1st, then the guy. It makes for a happy princess.
2006-09-28 08:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by SexxyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋