We have been dating 4 months...my lease is up in feb. and he wants me and my dog to move in to his house...
it feels right, and it will be 9 months by then...we 've fallen in love. do you think thats too soon?
2006-09-28 07:01:02 · 19 answers · asked by Bec 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it depends on the person. my boyfriend and i were living together before we were even dating. We were just friends when he first moved in, so it is hard to tell. I can tell you one thing. Living with someone early in a relationship is sometimes a good thing because you know what is is like to live with them right away.
2006-09-28 07:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by ...... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITs not really an issue of time length. I mean some people have moved in together after like 4 weeks let alone 4 months.
Others have waited 4 years so really its about personal preference.
If you trust this guy and think that its right (as you seem to) then I don't think its too soon.
2006-09-28 07:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by CJ B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's too soon, and I will tell you why. It takes a few years (at least two) to get to really know someone. You are both still on your best behavior. You can't really know someone until you see them in all kinds of situations. If you move into his place, you will lose your independence and having somewhere to go that is all your own. You may have started falling in love, but you need time to build the trust and confidence in him to move on to the next phase.
2006-09-28 07:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Geronimo5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my current husband moved in with me after one months of dating. we have been togather about 2 years, now i peobably will divorse very soon. so noone knows about future. and by the way, who knows what happens with both of u in 4 months? having been together for 4 months doesn't indicate anything. but anyway, i wish u a good luck, and please keep some back up always, even if u re very very happy right now, life changes so fast and so drastically, makes u regret about lots of things u did when u were happy and in love
2006-09-28 07:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people move in together or get married very soon after they meet and it works great. Other people move in or get married many years after they meet and it doesnt work. My personal deal is that if the dog likes him he cant be too bad.
2006-09-28 07:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by boyandhisdog2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you will know. I moved in with him after 4 months. It's up to you. Good Luck
2006-09-28 07:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just truly think about it, are you truly in love or is it infatuation. I moved into an apartment with my girlfriend/now fiancee at seven months. As you can see we are engaged. You will know when it is right so just listen to your heart. Good luck!
2006-09-28 07:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by verime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might say it quite is only too quickly. lots extra good to end issues. Have him semi-pass in, so he's around the homestead lots so which you study his behavior. Staying over for intercourse isn't comparable to having him have his stuff there and assisting with artwork and so on. you may desire to objective a tad of that. Plus your dating remains somewhat new. there is often the prospect (positioned up-divorce syndrome) that are feeling a desire for companionship and protection and are shifting too immediately in this one.
2016-10-18 03:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by haan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if it feels right then go for it! but don't do it only for love and cuz of your lease. do it cuz you are ready to make a real comitment, and i don't know how important marriage is to you, but if you move in, make sure he knows what you want out of the relationship and he is onboard with it.. Good lUCK!
2006-09-28 07:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by veeta675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby (of 11 yrs now) moved in with me 2 wks after we started dating...for some it works
2006-09-28 07:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by heartache 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋