Without loosing them as friends
2006-09-28 06:55:21 · 7 answers · asked by Pompin Jo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes, it's best to speak up thru your actions... actions speak louder than words.
Turning & walking away from them when they mistreat you, could show them that you've had enough & aren't going to stand for such behavior.
To say, "love you, see you later" as you walk away, could show them that you still want to be friends, but that you don't accept those behaviors.
2006-09-28 07:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple - Peep this they say something out of the ordinary now you need to practice this in the mirrow for real. Now you know how your friends act now it mimic time. hit them with some of the same gestures as they give you. and let them know in a semi outside tone WHAT?? As IF!! Naw hommie that just will not fly. TRUST me.. It will feel like you are coming across bossy but hey you need a little nudge~ And if they say hey u acting funny thats when you say Hey, well u keep acting like I am SOFT~ When I am not. Or was wondering who u was speaking too like that.. Put your eyebrow up and all.. U know.. The stern look~
2006-09-28 06:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up and don't let them run over you. Its that simple. If they can't get with that then they are not the type of friend you need so good riddance. Don't let anybody run you over. If a friend is doing that how could you call them a friend?
2006-09-28 06:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by truthbetold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your goal is to stand up for yourself, but not losing your friends at the same time. Try the assertive approach. What I mean by assertive is that you tell your friends the truth, but you have to be concerned about their feelings and your feelings as well. Don't let your friends take advantage of you. The line has to be drawn somewhere. If your friends continue to take advantage of you, they are not your friends. Hopefully, your friends will hear what you have to say. Best of luck.
2006-09-28 07:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest without coming down on them-if they are acting in a way you believe is disrespectful to you then let them know how it makes you feel without getting angry. Chances are they will feel very bad about hurting you -if they are your real friends- if not-you don't need them anyway! Good Luck!
2006-09-28 06:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by laura_lovely_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a confindence class, yes they do have them.
Be more assertive, try practising in a mirror what you would say.
Dont let ppl cut you off midsentence.
2006-09-28 06:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them i hate u so much r u stuped or wat
2006-09-28 06:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Yusef A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋