this "friend" of mine makes up excuses and what not that she's always busy. but she really isn't. she's with her boyfriend 24/7.
i don't know why i thought she would change. its the same thing that happen with her ex.
if she doesn't have a boyfriend then she's all buddy-buddy. but when she has one...there's no time for friends.
i always made time with friends when my boyfriend was here but now she has no time.
*boyfriend is in the army*
2006-09-28 06:41:25 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's currently working on her relationship right now. Since this is really bothering you so much, sit down with her and talk to her. Make sure that you are honest and hear what she has to say. Right now, you feel like the 3rd wheel because she has a boyfriend. Boys do come and go but true friendships last forever. Give her some time to get her priorities straight and she will come around. She may not even realize that she's ditching you. I hope my advice does help you. Good luck.
2006-09-28 06:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not ditching you. They have a relationship that they are trying to make work and that takes time. I have friends but when its time to be with my woman I have to make that time or I'm going to be a lonely dude. But I guess thats the difference between men and women. See men don't care about stuff like that. If my buddy is spending time with his girl then who am I to say he shouldn't. Hell I'm working on my own relationship.
2006-09-28 13:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by truthbetold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My "bff" is the same way. I just try to ignore it...cuz she just doesn't understand. They just get obsessed. They only come back when their bf dumps them. It sucks, i know, but you really can't change them. You kind of just have to not let it get to you. Find another friend to hang out with, that's what I did. Then she got jealous and tried to start hanging out with me again. It's better just to find other friends, but still be there for them if they need it because they don't know what their doing and that's why they forget about their friends. Continue to be a good friend even she doesn't.
2006-09-28 13:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hating ... all girls do this .. and guys too...
The answer is :
She is now having sex so therefore has better things to do with her recovery time.
When your boyfriend gets leave i suppose u r gonna be out with the girls every nite eh ..?
Dr Bad...(the real Hitch)
Almost full ... few more spaces....
2006-09-28 13:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋