Can anyone tell me why I dislike black me?

Question

I am black, but it is not my preference to date or even have a black man as a life mate.

Answer 1

I don't know, but I can guess. You don't like they Playas, or the bad dress, poor english skills, bad manners, and obnoxious behaviour. Additionally, you probably want someone who isn't going to spend four out of seven nights a week with the boyzzzz!

I will give you a better reason to stay away from them though. Black-American are 95% of the reason that AIDS is the fastest growing disease in black America. Most of this is because 30-70% are on the Down Low. So I don't blame you.

Answer 2

Well maybe up to this point you have not found someone that interests you who is black. But I hope you are not ruling out all black men. White or black doesnt matter, but ruling out all black men, based on nothing but skin color is do different than any other prejudice. You of course have every right to be predjudice, its a free country, but I just wonder if you have some bad association from your life and are passing it onto all black men. Black, White, or purple, there are good men and there are idiots. Base your choice on the second part, not the first.

Answer 3

It's not that you dislike yourself at all. Black men are reputed by society to be to (and the occasional few personally prove themselves to be) ignorant, egotistical asswipes whose only goal in life is to serve themselves at all costs to others, so no wonder you don't like them. Not that they're all like that at all, I'm just saying that that's probably where the resentment comes from.

Answer 4

and you don't have to. so what's the problem? That does not mean you don't like you because you are black does it? What good would it do you anyway? We can't change our color. Go out with whoever you want and love yourself as you are!

Answer 5

so pick who you want