just wondering
2006-09-28 05:58:25 · 8 answers · asked by Tiffany Rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes you are normal. I think everyone fantasizes once in a while and we are all curious by nature. As long as you are not out there doing what you are thinking about, you are ok.
2006-09-28 06:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. are you talking about just wild go and there and do it with another guy - or are you talking about making dinner with some other guy and watching a movie?
The sex thing is normal since we are all animals and the thoughts come to us naturally. We don't act on them because we have developed a social structure that doesn't permit it. If you are wondering about just doing normal everyday stuff with someone else it kind of says you may not be too into how you do that stuff now with your boyfriend.
If that is the case - think about what you would like to change and make subtle suggestions or changes now while the relationship is young.
2006-09-28 13:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it is normal. But the real test is what you do about it. Both of you will run across other people you will be attracted to. And you will always wonder what that would have been like. We all do this.
But remember this. Be true to yourself. If you have lost the feeling, love or otherwise, for the one your with, do not run around. it only will bring you heart ache.
Be true with the one your with or be with someone else, never both. You can then be proud of your self and will never have any regrets.
2006-09-28 13:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's totally normal. What would we have if not for our private thoughts, daydreams, and just innocent "wondering". If you cross the line and act on it, that would be wrong. I could almost guarantee your man has done the same thing. I think most people do it, if only briefly:)
2006-09-28 13:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ... ur a girl ... so all the other girls are not gonna hang u 4 it ...
Now if a guy asked that question ... the responses would be a bit different ... it would probably start ... All guys... ;-0
2006-09-28 13:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not?
Put it this way, I always say "I'm married, not dead."
It doesn't mean you're going to do it, just that you're as human as everyone else.
2006-09-28 13:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal...just dont act on it.....enjoy ur day dreams!
2006-09-28 13:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think how you would feel if he did that to you ????
2006-09-28 13:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋