My significant other had been talking to some girl through text messages for a few days- replied to some nasty pics,etc. Well we talked about it, went through all of the nonsense and today for the first time In a week I was feeling alright. My other half wanted to prove to me that they were not still texting so looked to find it on our verizon bill to try and prove it to me. I know they meant - but it just took me like five feet under in my heart. Why?
2006-09-28 05:51:38 · 9 answers · asked by BeautyMark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry for the mis spelling I meant to put I know they meant well by showing me the bill
2006-09-28 05:59:19 · update #1
Even though the issue might have been resolved (to some extent), something about the whole thing still bothers you. It hurt so much because you care for him alot, and it's a horrible feeling to have to deal with. But if you were over it, and he brought the issue back up, you're probably taken back because the issue was raised again.
He probably didn't know what he was doing, but he might have been trying to help settle whatever was in your mind still. He didn't realize that you were alright at that point in time so he tried to console you and prove his case more. He probably wants this thing behind him as you want it behind you.
2006-09-28 06:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard to feel like you mean something when your significant other is doing things like that. Its not your fault for feeling so bad...he really should show you some respect and stop doing that. If its just a friend its understandable but....replying to nasty pics? Sounds like something is up.
2006-09-28 12:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Snap Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to put a damper on things, but being a totally logical person, and very "not jealous" person, there is nothing okay or cool with that scenairo. So ask him this?
Does he mind if "you" do the same thing? Would he just shrug it off as if it's totally normal? Try asking him that. Of course he may say, "hey, no problem," but that's to cover his own B.S! Hey, maybe it's just me. Then again, if you believed your boyfriend, you wouldn't have asked for advice.....Good luck
2006-09-28 13:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would make any female upset if their man was talking to some other girl. It hurts when my man talks to some other female and he starts flirting with her. And i tell him that to. But it still hurts for a few days but after we talked him does respect me for letting him know how i felt. So don't worry if he really loves you he will respect you a lot more if you tell him how you feel.
2006-09-28 13:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Waterfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its totally normal to feel hurt by something like his. You obviously have deep feelings for your significant other otherwise you could have cared less. People close to our hearts have the greatest power over us - And that is to hurt us.
2006-09-28 12:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It took your heart cuz you have to go through this BS! It's a trust thing. Your not trusting him now. After you lose that it's all over and you know it. Sorry to say.
2006-09-28 12:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IThe less importance you gave a man , you will be happy. Men hate jelous woman, so don't be one of them. Ignore him what he is doing or better give a big dossis of his own medicine. Pretenden that youare sending text messages to gay and let see how your half will react. after that believe he is gonna stop doing stupidities. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 13:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpassionfruit007 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has he done this before?
How significant is he?
WHY DOES IT HURT???
YOU really care about HIM!
:-) :-(
2006-09-28 12:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by ThomasR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk
2006-09-28 12:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋