Men only go looking when there is a problem at home, not exciting, not as attractive not as adventurous in the sack or they just whine and complain all the time. Is it that hard to understand that guys do not want to hear that S H I T all the time and that they also want to do exciting stuff not the same old boring routine.
2006-09-28 05:48:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
agree
2006-09-28 05:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
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2016-11-25 00:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That most likely is the reason. However, why don't men try talking to their wives first before being disobedient? Tell her she has let herself go or that she is nagging too much. Just be nice about it. If the husband loves his wife he will do that. My husband and I have been together for 5 years and yeah at times it gets boring so we tell each other that and we figure out new things to do. Someone just sounds a little lazy to me.
Good luck with everything hon!
2006-09-28 06:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, but then theres the other problem...
I have known guys who get married, just so that they "can" fool around, because it becomes "exciting" to them!!!
I had a buddy who did this! He had the greatest wife at home, and he had girls calling him all the time... (Used to make me sick, as his wife was the best, and he just was that "type" of guy, and I felt sorry for her all the time).
So, its not always the "womans" fault. Some men just have "baggage" they bring to a marriage, themselves and cant unlaod until they have cheated on thier spouses, and made "men" out of themselves, because of thier short-sightedness, and emotional hangups and insecurities, plus, lust are fulfilled.
Some men just lose interest in thier Wives after many years. They do the same thing over and over again and need a 'change' in thier lives, they think, because they are "bored"...
Others, as you say, just need the thrill, or the adventure of it, first, not being caught, and second, getting something "strange".
They dont think of consequences, of an STD, both getting it and giving it to thier wife! That was never an option to them, but, when they get it, then they cant BELIEVE that they contracted it from thier "wonderful partner" sheesh!
You gotta feel sorry for women who have cheating spouses, in my opinion. Because its not always thier fault!
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-09-28 05:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by x 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Then the guy should have the guts to get the hell out of the unhappy relationship before he starts boffing anything that will hold still long enough to let him get his jollies!
The thing is, they want "home" and they want all those happy times of screwing sluts' brains out. Well, guess what? That's not a real relationship. It's two people using each other.
Relationships are a matter of give and take. Good times and bad. Shared experiences and open communications.
If it sucks so bad at home, go make a new home but don't sneak around behind your woman's back!
2006-09-28 05:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
No. Men need to accept responsibility and be accountable. Don't try to put YOUR choices or decisions off on your woman. Relationship problems don't LEAD you to cheat. It can certainly make a quiet, or fun, or sexy, or considerate woman look a BILLION times better........
but overall it is YOUR decision to cheat. Or to take the time, and use that energy on trying to get an understanding and come to terms with your girlfriend/wife.
If you took the time to find the source of the problem, instead of jumping head first into MORE problems (especially if you aren't planning to LEAVE your woman for the OTHER woman), you may just end up being able to get to the heart of it, work it out, and have that great relationship.
Time and communication are key. Another great element is HONESTY, and patience without judgement.
TIP: LISTEN without DEFENDING, and SPEAK without OFFENDING.
That way you can HEAR what her concerns or issues in the relationship are, and you can speak yours to her......then hash it out, and see if it can be corrected. If it can't........start packing. If it can..........take her on a date to celebrate.....then pull over somewhere, and be spontaneous.
2006-09-28 05:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by lilac b 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Then don't settle down if you can't commit to one women. Sounds like you are doing a good deal of wining and complaining. Do you realize how many diseases you can catch trying to find this excitement? It is part of life to settle down and get into a routine, maybe you should grow up before you get into anymore relationships. You sound like a immature brat!
2006-09-28 05:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by mistypa12000 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is the most ignorant thing I have ever read. Your just a typical ignorant man that wants to blame others for your bad behavior. You know what this kind of attitude will get you ?? A big lesson. One day some girl you really love is going to cheat on you left and right. Then you can sit back and wonder what you were lacking *sshole.
2006-09-28 05:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
And women stray because they don't want to hear men complain about money and how hard they have to work to bring in the cash. These men are not spontaneous--they are dull and boring. Women want excitement and adventure--we hate men who whine and complain...Is it hard that WE don't want to hear that crap from men?
2006-09-28 05:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It is true. But if the guy is so bored of his life then he should leave first. If my man tells me he is bored then I do something different. It's not only woman who get boring so don't think that. If you want to shut up her whining stick "SOMETHING" in her mouth that works and won't be bored for sure.
2006-09-28 05:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like an excuse to me. If we blame the straying on women then it's ok. I don't agree with this at all.
2006-09-28 06:38:05 · answer #11 · answered by Jason 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋