I know of a woman who is so emasculating to her spouse and then openly calls her husband a wimp and humiliates him for taking her abuse. Do you think he should leave her and what damage do you think she's doing to her kids? They are boys.
2006-09-28 05:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She sure as hell is damaging her boys!!! They will grow up thinking they are suppose to take sh*t from every person they come into contact with. Damn this women for hurting these boys to fill her "power trip" she is on. Yeah, I'm a women, but this man needs to leave AND get custody of his boys as well.
2006-09-28 06:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do think HE *should* leave her. Noone deserves abuse..... and men *ARE* victims of abuse just like women are. I am sorry this is happening, and yes the children *ARE* being effected as well. These boys are going to grow up being one of two ways........ abusers themselves to women because they refuse to be treated the way their mother treated their father and them, or they are going to find themselves being abused by looking and dating women like their mother. Neither way is a good way to be in life. These boys are young and they don't know any better. Their mother will always be apart of their life and they will always be subjected to a certain amount of her abuse, however being away from her and living with their dad, that abuse will be minemum and they have a chance of growing up to be good, smart, going to college, having an active social life...... young men. Right now, they are emotionally confussed and hurt, and thinking that they are what their mother calls them. THEY ARE NOT WHAT SHE CALLS THEM. By any means. I hope this man gets away from her, divorces her, and takes his children with him and fights her in court for full custody of his boys. They deserve a happy, healthy life. Blessed be..................
2006-09-28 13:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fellow needs to learn to stand up for himself first. If their are children in this family he has a greater responsiblity here. If he learns to stand up for himself and the wife still won't change then he should consider leaving. This way he can at least example to his kids that he tried to work things out with mommy but they just couldn't agree.
2006-09-28 12:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her hubby is a whimp, will he leave her??
It's never good for any kids to be around any abusive relationship. It hurts them as much if not more.
Let this hubby know to get out. Let her call someone else names until one won't be whimp enough to put her in her place.
2006-09-28 12:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is spousal abuse, if the roles were reversed she would run away.
For the sake of the marriage they need counseling and he needs to stand up to her. The children are getting bad role modeling with this abuse and it may affect them to adulthood.
Divorce is an option, but she may continue to abuse him with child support, alimony, etc.
2006-09-28 12:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has to leave. She has no right to do that to him
2006-09-28 12:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Christina M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing
2006-09-28 13:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by julio a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋