give up up on the person you are willing to marry ? she showed me she cant be trusted , can did I do the right thing by letting her go ? will I find someone else ?
2006-09-28 05:31:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you can not trust someone you can not be with them. It is better to be safe than sorry. Don't you agree. Sure you will find someone else. There are plenty of good women looking for good men who know what trust is in a relationship. Never give up hope and think you have to settle for a chicken dinner if the chicken aint cooked and is running off the plate if you know what I mean. You can not control someone else all you can do is put an end to it. People stay with people for a sense of comfort and find themselves unhappy. Be her friend and talk to her about your problem and is she feels she can work on herself so she can be the best for you then give it a try.
2006-09-28 05:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Miss T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this question asked so many times. Basically im going to put it this way, do you want to be with that person yes or no. If the answer is yes, then it's simple. People these days look to other people for help way too much. I especially find this disturbing because
A. Half of these forum posters are young or single
B. if they are married, they dont have the same circumstances and the divorce rate in this country is 50%
i have trust problems with my g/f of 4 1/2 years.. but basically i love her.. and nothing will change that... there can be a relationship with rebuilding trust...
anyways man just try to forget it and move onto the future.. if you live in the past all the time you are wasting your present... just ask yourself that yes or no question.. Good luck
2006-09-28 05:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is essential in a relationship- especially a marriage. If you can't trust her, you need to let her go. Maybe talk to her though, and see why the trust isn't there. Yes- you will find someone else. It sounds as though you need to work on yourself a bit, though. Why are you willing to marry someone that you can't trust? Good luck!
2006-09-28 05:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dewey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a very difficult thing to gain once it is lost. If what she did was cheating on you, that's so hard to overlook and you can't go back to trusting after being hurt that way. People can change, but to be honest....I feel once a cheater always a cheater. If it wasn't cheating but something else, it might be different. No matter what though, you WILL find someone else.
2006-09-28 05:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by ctcindyct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you did the right thing if the other person showed somehow that she cannot be trusted Yes, you will eventually find someone else.
2006-09-28 05:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the right thing. Trust is most important. You would always be suspicious of her and probably be hurt by her in the long run.
You can find someone else. I'm sorry you got hurt.
2006-09-28 06:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she showed you she cant be trusted and you let her go, that doesnt mean you have given up. It means that you are strong enough to realize that this person is not right for you. Of course, you will find someone else, someone deserving of you.
2006-09-28 05:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a big part of love, and an even bigger part of marriage. No one should go into a relationship where trust does not exist. Once lost, however, it can be rebuilt. The question is, did she do something so awful, that you aren't willing to try and trust her again. And, is she worth it?
2006-09-28 05:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always be able to find someone else. So you see, you did the right thing. You must be able to trust the person you love.
2006-09-28 05:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is built on trust and if you dont have a strong foundation (trust) then what do you have to build on. It's better to be alone than miserable. And if you are worried about her constantly... You would be miserable. There are good woman out there... don't sell yourself short. Marriage is a life long commitment that shouldnt be entered into lightly. Find Mrs. Right...Don't settle! You'll regret it if you don't!! Good luck!
2006-09-28 05:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋