I have a boyfiend how I've been with for 3 1/3 years and I just found out that he cheated on me with I don't know how many girls. But the fuuny thing is that he didn't have enough ball to tell me before I got pregnant so now I'am in a major situation I really don't know what to do because we have a beatiful baby girl. Like I said I'm not sure what to do now. I just want to see what people think and say about my problem. Should I just forgive him and keep living with him or should I just pack and leave with our baby????
2006-09-28 05:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by Rashelle S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It would depend on how you feel about him. If you still love him then I would suggest you try and work through it. Unfortunately a lot of men and women cheat at some time or the other. Especially as you have a daughter together. Sit down and chat and maybe get councilling. When they do this it knocks your confidence and kills any trust you had in him. Think long and hard before you just pack up and go. Its not going to be easy, and will take a long time for you to forget and forgive.
2006-09-28 05:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave with your baby. He has been unfaithful, and waited god knows how long to tell you. Once a cheater always a cheater. He might have been scared that you'd leave him before and now because you have a baby together you have to stay. But this is going to continue for the rest of your life if you stay, and that's going to create an unstable environment for your baby
2006-09-28 12:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him to not do it again then stay, but personally I would leave. Especially if he cheatted after u got pregnant. If you no longer trust him then there is no point in keeping you and the baby in a situation that makes u unhappy.
2006-09-28 12:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack up, and leave HIM with the baby.
No, seriously: his behavior pattern is well established. You have the choice of clinging to him, and waiting for him to finally dump you (after leaving who knows how many other pregnant girls in his wake), or leave him now, and get it over with. Just be sure you get the child support nailed down before you loose track of him...but let him be whatever part of your daughter's life he is willing to be, whenever he wants to (now, or ten years from now)--you owe that to your baby girl.
--Good Luck, and be strong!
2006-09-28 12:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Howie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should pack up and leave...u don't want to live with forever wondering what he's doing. u have a baby to take care of. and worrying about him should be the last thing on your mind. but DONT ever keep him away from your baby.
2006-09-28 12:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance but make sure he doesnt repeat this again
2006-09-28 12:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do what is best for your baby.
2006-09-28 12:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by coko823 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋