2006-09-28 05:22:27 · 31 answers · asked by forbidnfruit_420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You go girl!!
See the problem is that girls do that too much in the beginning of the relationship and it gives the guys false hope. When it stops or slows down the guys are wondering what is wrong. SLOW DOWN GIRLS, don't build up your mans hopes that this is going to last a life time. If you treat it as a special treat he will eagerly wait for it and be so happy when it happens. But in return he should do something nice for you as well...
2006-09-28 05:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is funny how all the women answered so far and readily applauded your question.
The naive and the romantics will tell you sex is an expression of love, however it to often becomes a bargaining chip.
As a married man for many years who enjoys sex immensely with my wife and please her whenever she wants it. The thing is she has little or no interest and sex is sometimes once every three months by her choice.
What have I done? I work almost 50 hours a week, coach my kid's sport teams, do all the laundry every week, do the dishes, do yard work, fix anything that is broken in the house and deal with any financial issues that come up.
I think an occasional bj is not out of the realm of possibly, but it rarely happens.
Before you start slamming your man, look at yourself first.
2006-09-28 12:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I enthusiastically go down on her until shes finished and she gives me a few minutes, then says "Ok, now what do you wanna do?"
I want more of that. I haven't had a good BJ since we got married 11 years ago. She used to take her time and experiment with different techniques. She would do this at least once a week before I fell into the sticky web of marriage.
2006-09-28 12:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Highbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've taken her out to eat, helped her get sarted on a home based business, arranged child care, offered to take her out to a movie and dinner, stayed up half the night with the baby (I work, she doesn't, I had work and an hour commute the next morning) I've arranged for her to be able to participate in activities she's been missing out on lately, I've not complained when she stays up until midnight playing games on the computer rather than come to bed with me even when I REALLY need some attention, I've done the dishes, some of the laundry, fed the baby, fetched the dog, mowed the lawn, flowers, and candy.
What am I missing?
2006-09-28 12:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sifu Shaun 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally my coplaint isnt that they stopped but more along the lines of not being as frequen as before. Having kids no doubt has added to the frequency dropp off as well.
You sound like you have some issues with MEN. I still do just about everything for my wife that I did when we were newlyweds.
If anything my wife is on the receiving end more often than me.
2006-09-28 12:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...
Work while she goes back to college
Do all the laundry
Do 75% of the cooking
Do all the dishes
Work all finances
Bought her a house
Provide her w/ a car
Do most house cleaning
Do 50% of all shopping
Provide medical insurance
Provide a PC and internet use
Pay all utility bills
That might be worth a little head.
2006-09-28 12:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I want you to know that I am a giver and receiver. This is the only way to go!
The childish men say that it is all about them or it is the wife's duty.
Marriage is 7 years strong and going!
2006-09-28 12:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by RJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love this question too! But here's how I see it......after the marriage he stops caring about how clean he is, how good he smells...all that good stuff we tend to keep up with before we say the vows!! Wash, powder, change the boxers every day, use the good smelling stuff you used to use...we'll want ALL of you!!
2006-09-28 12:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by ctcindyct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a give and take thing, my marriage (which lasted for 20 yrs), was good in all aspects, sex, communication, everything! For those women that have husbands that are complaining, its because you, AS A COUPLE, have failed to communicate!
2006-09-28 12:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get BJ from all women, ragrdless of what i get em... whats the difference, baby.. u sound imature for ure age, done chat like a grown up, ull drown.
2006-09-28 12:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋