After how long sex gave you the same pleasure as before, after the delivery of your baby? Women ...is it that sex is never the same after you give birth to a baby?
2006-09-28 05:21:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
SEX GIVE ALWAYS SAME PLEASURE THOUGH ITS IT COUNTING WILL BE LESS. BUT THE PLEASURE REMAINS SAME WHEN IT IS INEFFECTIVE.
2006-09-29 01:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, logically the woman has squeezed something equivilent to a watermelon out of an opening the size of a lemon. Guys, think about the biggest, hardest crap you ever took and then multiply that by a 1974 Buick Road-Master! It takes time for the nerves and muscles to heal after that, so logically it will take some time for the woman to recover. Her body is physically worn out from the pregnancy, the delivery and the strain of caring for a newborn. When you're tired, you're not as interested in having sex. Also, she's a little traumatized by the birth ... sex gets you pregnant, pregnant means delivery, delivery equals pain ... you do the math. It's not exactly logical, but it's a very real fear for her. Then add to all of that the fact that she doesn't look or feel the same way she did before pregnancy, and she's worried that the guy won't find her "sexy" anymore. It's not unusual for new parents to go several months after the baby is born without having regular sexual relations. About the time the baby starts sleeping through the night, things will start to pick up. If everything is normal and healthy physically with the woman AND everything is normal and healthy with the relationship, then sexual relations should resume and be as pleasurable as before.
2006-09-28 12:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotionally the sex was much better. Physically it took a while. I have a 3 year old and a 9 month old and it's just now getting better. The hormones are still screwy for a while after you deliver so take it slow and don't expect too much the first time. Your body has been through a lot the last 9 months. If you're nursing, wear a bra because your breasts are still pretty tender and won't like getting bounced around very much. If you have a vaginal birth, use lots of lubricant and patience. And that's not even getting into being interrupted by the kids! It never fails that my son starts crying just when it's getting really good! :) I think he has a sex radar!
2006-09-28 12:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must wait at least 6 weeks after you have had your baby to have sex if you had a normal vaginal delivery after your first check up with your doctor to make sure that everything has healed down there. The sex after a baby is just as good as before try doing some exercises for down there to tighten it back up you can do it any time even on the computer. sit back and relax and squeeze in and out and that tightens it back up also so when you get older you won't need to wear tena or depends.
HAPPY LOVE MAKING.
2006-09-28 12:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is definitely an individual thing! I was terrified even after the six weeks, the first few times wasn't very good. It did take me a while to get back into the swing of things. But we did get there and it is much better, I am certainly not as shy as I was before having the baby.
2006-09-28 12:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by dreday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex got much better after our children!!!!!
I think it is the bond that you get from parenting together and the intimacy that comes along with having something that is both a part of you and him.
There is no way to express the level or feeling of intimacy you feel when you are standing over a bassinet with your arms around each other in aw. Then you look at each other a see a tenderness you never seen before in each others eye's.
2006-09-28 12:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by mommy of two! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time after having a baby was a little wierd cause it had been so long. But eventually when I became comfortable again, it was 10 times as good as before!!! My guess would be that you could still be a little self-concious about what changes your body went through.
2006-09-28 12:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a baby 6 months ago and sex to me is the same if not better...I had a c-section so even after 8 weeks of healing I still had to take my time cause your still healing inside..but even when I took my time it was still great sex
2006-09-28 12:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sex drive decreased at 8 months and didn't really return until almost 6 months after I had my son. My OB said every woman is different and just to take it slow. I'm now with someone other than my son's father and the sex is amazing-when we have time!
2006-09-28 12:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is the same but you just had a baby and its gonna take some time to recover from it . You'll be pretty busy and eventually things will calm down and you'll enjoy sex again, just remember the woman did all the work you just had fun maken it keep that in mind
2006-09-28 12:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay it has different expersion when u do sex.
if u do sex 2-3 times in a day then u feel diff.
the sex expersion can never be same for both.
& after baby the sex point of womam is become large so it has own sex expersion after Baby.
2006-09-30 12:31:36 · answer #11 · answered by shorewalas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋