broken hearted and i dont know what to do?

Question

ok my boyfriend and i just got out of a 5 month realtionship and im not over him i mean ive tried i dont worry about it much we still talk we are friends and i miss him i dont know what to do suomething keeps telling me to move on cause im tired of trying and another part of me is saying dont let him go keep trying and my family says that maybe it could work out just give it some time so someone please tell me what to do let him go or try and work it out cause love him and he says he still loves me he is just under alot of stress

Answer 1

I know where your at. . .I'm there now too. . .
Here's what you're going to do:
Spend time with him, help him to relax, value the firendship the two of you share. . .
Then remember that nomatter what time brings to your love.
However it is meant to work out,that is how it will work out.
who can say
where the road goes
where the day flows
- only time

And who can say
if your love grows
as your heart shows
- only time
x2

(Bridge)

Who can say
why your heart sighs
as your love flies
- only time

And who can say
why your heart cries
when your love lies
- only time
x2

(Bridge)

Who can say
when the roads meet
that love might be
in your heart

And who can say
when the day sleeps
if the night keeps
all your heart

Night keeps, all your heart

(Bridge)

Who can say
if your love grows
as your heart shows
- only time

And who can say
where the road goes
where the day flows,
- only time

And who can say
where the road goes
where the day flows
-only time

Who knows - only time
Who knows - only time...

There are people sleeping under the same sky as you every night who are crying with you all over the world.
remember that.

All my love to you sweetheart.

KEEP BELIEVING : LOVE WINS.

Answer 2

I have learned this and I will say it to you sweetie.NEVER LET A MAN STRESS YOU OUT AND NEVER CHASE HIM LIKE A CAT AND MOUSE GAME. You let him come to you. Go out and have fun and find some friends to chill with. Have a drink(if you are old enough) and chill out. Do not call him and don't sit there and worry about him. Go and be around fun people who will make you laugh or keep you occupied. Never give in. If he wants you he will come back, but don't wait to long bcuz a 5 month relationship is not a long one and you can so easily find someone who will cherish you and the 5 months you could give to them. men for some reason love to know they have a woman's nose wide open. Even if you are hurt don't let him know. Go on with your life and have some you time.

Answer 3

Big hug to you first. I think you can let him go now. Ih guys want you, they will never let you go through this pain. There will be another chance, more and more, and if your heart tells that you should move on, then you must follow. First few days could be like hell, but do not worry, you are not alone. I am going through the same. We must believe that everyone has the place where we are cuddled affectioantely with no condition. Use this time to enjoy your hobbies or even being more beautiful! Good luck!

Answer 4

WHY did you break up?
This is so tough.
You need to cut him loose. He knows where you are, and how to get in touch with you.
If he is under stress, that is a pitiful excuse to break up-he needs the love and support of his girlfriend to help him get through it, unless he is getting help from someone else.
Leave him alone. Do not call him. If he loves you and misses you, let him KNOW it. He'll come running.
If he broke up with you, there was a reason.
Try dating someone else, just to go for coffee. He'll hear about it.
Don't JUST be his friend, while he is breaking your heart.
You will not be OVER him for a year. Get started today.

Answer 5

Step away from the situation. Try not talking to him for a week or so, If you still miss him and want to be with him, call him. If you feel better and the feelings have died down some, then move on. But being friends with him and keeping in touch only keeps the emotions on high! good luck

Answer 6

girl you might as well try to work it out because if yall still love each other, yall aint gon never wanna move on so why not just try to work it out?? that would be the most logical thing to do. and im in the same situation. i broke up wit my baby because he was under stress and that stress was starting to affect me so i couldn't take it anymore. the reason u broke up with him is because of anger not because u dont wanna be with him no more. trust me. and if u wake up every morning and he's on your mind, all through the day you wondering what he's doing, close your eyes thinkin bout him, .............. might as well call it long term love cuz even if yall dont get back together, u still will be together in your soul

Answer 7

Why don't you just get some space from each other for a while? Take a break from each other for whatever time period you think is suitable and come back with fresh minds and hearts. Then, you can approach the whole relationship with a fresh perspective.

Answer 8

there really isn't a question here. It seems to be over so move on. He may care for you,but whatever the reasons,he's not committed to you, so move on and don't look back thinking of how it could be . your future love could be waiting for you out here somewhere. get going onto new and better things.

Answer 9

Let him go you wasting your time. He is getting the satisfaction that your falling over him and he's not giving you any attention. Go find someone that wants to be with you. Why would you subject yourself to this relationship?It goes two ways not one way. Good luck!

Answer 10

it sounds like u love eachother a lot still so maybe u should stay close whilst ur split up and maybe it will do u some good 2 have a break aswell. u will get back 2gether!!