Some years ago, our apartment building had a fire, the police were running up and down the halls screaming. We barely had enough time to grab the cat. It's the only time I've ever yelled at my wife. We both still have some post traumatic stress from it, can anyone relate? I never believed in that term until that event.
2006-09-28 05:12:33 · 15 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can relate, a couple years ago, when my car decided to have an electrical fire.... I yelled at my friends to "Get out of the car", I barely had enough time to grab my purse, with my paycheck that I had just cashed!!
Anyways, my friends were greatful... and even up to this day, diff. car smells get me a little nervous....
omg, I can visualize her getting woke up from a sound sleep like that, I'd punch you!!! (j/k)
LOL
2006-09-29 03:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man....i'm glad you at least got the cat out! It would be sad to see the poor thing go up in flames!! Although, seeing the cat may contribute to her post traumatic stress....it might be a good idea for your wife to have a bonfire and toss the cat in and watch it burn. I hear that can be very therapeutic....
2006-09-28 05:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think you were too harsh as you did it out of fear for her life. ptss is a hard thing to live with and you tend to over think things so don't be so hard on yourself. My father has been a sufferer of this syndrome for 15 years and he is recieving medical help and i would advise you and your wife to do the same as this could take over your lives if left un-attended. Good luck.
2006-09-28 05:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did what you needed to do. If you were more calm about it, she would have stopped you to ask questions, and there wasnt time for that.
Extreme stress like that can make us do things we wouldnt normally do. You were trying to save her. There is no reason to feel guilty about that.
2006-09-28 05:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rofl...i like this woman. once you've a spouse that a) outfits up like a sweet cane for you and b) yells lick me (actually TELLS you what she needs) then you actually ought to count number your self an fairly satisfied guy certainly... flow look after her!!! Lol.
2016-11-25 00:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were not too harsh. You were scared and didn't want any harm to come to her. You wanted to get her attention fast and let her know that you both had to get out of there and fast.
2006-09-28 05:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think thats bad as long as u dont do it everyday like its a regular thing, u were scared and worried about her, u guys need to move on ( u sound like a newlywed) its ok, go have some sex or somethin that'll take away the stress...lol
2006-09-28 05:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by babiluv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny as usual Mr. Fingers!!
2006-09-28 05:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by andi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are becoming predictable, I figured it was something to do with a fire.........come on we are all on to you by now.
others new to 'sausagefingers' read the rest of his questions from now on before answering. He is just looking for a reaction and a way to waste his points.
2006-09-28 05:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good Heavens no, you were in a stressful situation and trying to save her....
2006-09-28 05:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋