WHY?
2006-09-28 05:07:59 · 33 answers · asked by Missunderstood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's a good thing, my husband is around me all the time, and I like it because I like the closeness we share, and makes me feel really secure and loved.
2006-09-28 05:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon what you want.
Some guys who exhibit this behavior are dependent, and may become more and more anxious when you are not available. This can become a royal PIA to some people.
Other guys can't let you out of their sight for reasons of jealousy. This too shows a high degree of insecurity, but it may show itself as possession. Unless you want to be owned and controlled to the nth degree, stay away from these people.
Then again, what do you mean by 'all the time'? Every minute? Three hours a day? Once a day? Twice a week? You need to examine yourself too to see how much intimacy you can stand.
2006-09-28 05:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. Do you want him around all the time ? If not .. then it isn't good. You don't say if he is a friend of yours .. a boyfriend .. or just some strange guy. Depending on who he is .. tell him that you enjoy his company .. but you need your own time away from people too. Time to yourself. If he gets upset at that.. then he is a very controlling person and you need to dump him right away. It only gets worse. Good Luck! :)
2006-09-28 05:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly everyone needs their space. If you're around him ALL the time the two of you will get tired of each other. Think about it this way: Would you want to hang out with the same friend ALL the time? No. It's the same thing.
2006-09-28 05:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on if he has a J O B !!!! If he does and still wants to be around you all the time, I would take it as a "Compliment" and run with it !! Is he your Beau? If he is than thats Wonderful, that just means he's just so "in-love" with you, that he wants to be involved in your everyday! How sweet is that! If he's not I'd buy you some of that "Pepper-Spray" just in case, he's a Wierdo! Pepper spray is legal, in most states. It is here in Arizona, anyway.. Not mase, just pepper-spray.. That will stop anyone for a long enough time for you to get away! I checked my pepper spray, one time, because I've had it in my purse for so many years, I wanted to make sure it still worked.. MISTAKE!!! I sprayed it away from me with my arm extended, and unfortunately it was a windy night, and the wind was facing/coming towards me that night, had I thought about the wind thing, I would have stood somewhere else against the wind. Lo' and behold, I sprayed it, and all the spray came right back in my face!! You want to talk about choking most of the night, not to mention I couldn't keep my eyes from watering they stung so bad!! Ha! Ha! I can laugh about it now, but, at the time it was not funny!! It definately will work, should you have to use it on this guy! Believe me!! He could be a Loner, and because you "Give him the time of day" he thinks highly of you...or he could be "Gay" and just wants to be around feminine women, who'll give him the time of day.. Or it could very well be, he wants to ask you out, but just dont know how to go about it.. And by hanging around you, is helping build his confidence, to eventually ask you out.... I dont know which it is, but, just be careful, either way! Good-Luck, to you! Smile!
2006-09-28 05:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't depend on him, it depends on you. If you think it's good, then it's good, if you think its bad, then its bad. I can think of lots of women (older, perhaps) who would love the constant attention of a guy. But you're young, and are just feeling the energies of life. A guy hanging around might be stifling you. If so, you need to tell him to back off. This doesn't mean you don't like him, you just don't like the pressure of his being there all the time.
2006-09-28 05:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your man to be around you all the time then it's good, if you don't like your man around you all the time then it's bad.wasn't really a hard question although i don't think that was really the question you should have asked.more like my man wants to be around me all the time and although it seems cool I am annoyed with this behavior/you want to know if you are right or wrong to feel this way? you are what you are you either like or you don't, doesn't really matter what we think now does it?
2006-09-28 05:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good but at the same time it can be bad. it all depends on why he wants to be around u and what he does wen he's around u. ok, it can be good because that can mean that he wants to give u all his time and just spend quality time with you. it could be bad because he might just wanna follow you around all the time just to make it seem like he just want quality time but really he just wanna see what u doin, what guys are going to try to talk to u, and things like that. and girl if he is that type u better RUN! them be the kind that get crazy in a long term relationship
2006-09-28 05:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by diedra06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends if you want him around you all the time or not.♥ If you do then yes it is good, if you don't then no it's bad!♥
2006-09-28 05:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is good. Me and my hubby not only work all day together but when we go home we hang around each other outside, cooking. I have never felt so good about being around him all the time. And he feels the same way. It has just brought us way closer than ever before..WE are so in love. and with kids.
2006-09-28 05:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋