well it seems very odd to me that this is happening.. but for the past few weeks i have been talking and going out with this girl.. i have not had sex or anything with her yet.. but i notice that when i would try to watch a video that it absolutely did nothing... i couldnt figure out of it was somthing that could be physically wrong .. as ive lost all interest in it.. or if this is normal when your so distracted thinking about somone else? any insight into this would be great thanks...
2006-09-28 04:54:37 · 19 answers · asked by re33b9 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Porn is annoying to me now.. i think a few of you were right, maybe i am finally maturing i dont know.. but i was not sure.. and i appreciate those with the serious answers.. ;)
2006-09-28 05:03:58 · update #1
You have probably just become tired or bored with it, and maybe you are ready to experience what you have seen in the videos rather than watch it.
Take some time away from the porn and get to know more about the new object of your affection.
Maybe she changed your point of view about thinking of women in just a sexual manner.
There is more to life than just sex, and there is more to love about a woman than just her body.
Sex should be an act of real passion for a couple.
But, in all actual reality, friends with benefits can be a great thing!
2006-09-28 05:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not a guy, but porn has always bored me. Past the thrill of, "Ooh, look. They're doin' it," with the immediate snickers that follow, it just leaves me flat.
When I consider the issue, I think it's because I'm more turned on by the passion and romance that leads to the mind-boggling sex, than to just the sexual act itself.
And I always feel at least sub-consciously aware that the people in the video don't really FEEL anything for eachother. They're just two actors, male and fem (usually) who know the formula: Insert Tool A into Slot B. Repeat.
In other words, maybe you've outgrown it. Which would be a good thing.
2006-09-28 12:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by HyperBeauty 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The sex in porn so infrequently resembles the real thing - not many girls are going to be thrilled if you interupt the act of coitus to ejaculate on her face. Unless they are a French art critic, then by all means, ******* it up.
The acting is usually horrid, the direction, sets, lighting and camerawork laughable, and it can be quite a chore to get through five minutes of one of these films.
Even the mainstream films - such as Romance and 9 Songs, which feature hardcore sex are pretty boring and far from arousing.
For me, arousal comes from the way a woman looks at me, the way she walks, her accent, her intelligence...(well, she has to be cute too of course) but for some odd reason, seeing a coke addict with fake hooters get drilled by three guys just doesn't wind me up anymore...
2006-09-28 12:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Glockmeister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is almost all the same. You just get tired of it and you can also outgrow it. A relationship will naturally distract you from it as well (even a nonsexual one.)
Most likely you are going a combination of all three of these things. It has nothing to do with your sex drive only maturity.
2006-09-28 11:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not the only one who feels like this. I used watch them, but ended up turning it off and go and make a cup of tea instead, more refresting..
Porn mags, movies etc are old news and very boring (yawn!).The real thing is much better. I'm sure you've nothing physically wrong with you. You're as normal as everyone else. Enjoy you're life
2006-09-28 12:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by knightlibby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It doesn't excite you because along with all the rest of the secular world, you have become desensitised to the sanctity of a beautiful male - femal relationship. If you stopped watching that crap, and focused on how to elevate the relationship with your spouse by finding new and creative ways of relating to each other, im sure that would be far more fruitful.
2006-09-28 11:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by lonny111 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of reason, I hope it is because of this new woman in your life. It could be because normal porn does nothing for you and you need something extra or stronger. If that is the case then be careful how far you take it.
2006-09-28 11:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by DutchApplePie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like anything in life that becomes routine, you will after a while become desensitized to it's effects, and lose your appreciation for it. Porn, and sex in general can be one of those thing. Abstain from porn for a while and it will regain its effect upon you.....
2006-09-28 12:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by whidd2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have a "problem" I think that your mind is focussed on other things right now and porn is more of a thing that you had without other women in the picture.
2006-09-28 11:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Marie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not getting excited by porn is a healthy thing. You should be happy! Those are exploited people up there, no matter how happy they look.
2006-09-28 11:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋