well is it when u are in a long distance relationship. who should change destinations???
2006-09-28 04:30:13 · 17 answers · asked by Shawty Luv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
compromise, that is one of the key components to a successfully marriage........learn to compromise now when you are both still learning from your new union, there is no right for you or right for him, but right for your marriage. Good Luck
2006-09-28 04:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one changing destinations should be the one that would cause the marriage relationship the least amount of adjustment. We are talking here harm or help to the relationship. List the pros and cos of each partner for the move.
2006-09-28 18:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever it's worth, I think it's great when a newly married couple has some distance from both sets of parents. It really helps you to establish your own life together.
This is a tough decision, but I really hope both of you would be willing to drop everything and move for the other-one, if that's the way you are, you're marriage is going to be wonderful.
best wishes
2006-09-28 11:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is what you make it, depends how long have you been living apart,how strong of a bond you have ( make sure your both on the same page) because marriage is a whole lot of hard work. changing destinations it depends on a lot of factors the main one being who makes more money or the potential to make more money
2006-09-28 22:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by dawnshawn1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is about compromise...long distance relationsips are the most difficult. It will take alot of work and understanding on both parts, but if you really love each other it can work. Good luck.
2006-09-28 11:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love each other, and I mean ..I can't live without you, you are the only one for me, I need you for the rest of my life ..kinda love...then you should both learn to compromise, give and take is an important part of marriage. Weigh the pros and cons and make your decision together
2006-09-28 11:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by patty m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean to be married and live far away from eachother?
personally i wouldn't be ok with that. is it ok for you?
that is a decision only you and him can make together, we can't tell you who should move. long distance relationships are hard though, i know that much.
2006-09-28 11:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The husband is the head of the family, you should go to him if it is what he wants. If you feel that he should make the change---you should not be married.
2006-09-28 11:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is an extreamly hard desicion to make. I mean it would be up to both of you. But i think the only way to be truely fair is to move some one new both of you so that way you can rough it together.
2006-09-28 11:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person making the least amount of $ should change locations to have a better life;
make sense?
good luck.
2006-09-28 11:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by lusaisthebest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋