she told me she not happy i asked her why she answered that she just not happy she know i love her so much n she love me she told me she need a time to think about us i dont know what she meant...i need a help what should i do she got so mad at me from lara things...
2006-09-28 04:25:40 · 7 answers · asked by raedaf2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let her breathe. give her the time she asks for. tell her u love her and when she's ready to be with u again u are there no matter what. i know it's hard to leave her alone but u have to do it. if u keep on bugging her u will push her farther and farther away. hang out with friends, keep very busy. do whatever it takes to not call her. don;t call her.. i repeat don't call her.. now, if she calls u it's all good. talk to her. let her know u miss her and go from there. now, if she does'nt call u for a long time, then still don't call her. u must then prepare to move on. this is very hard but if she never calls then u know that her saying she needs time was just an excuse to leave anyway. u must be strong and move on...lean on your friends as much as u can cuz u will need them right now.
2006-09-28 04:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is my opinion on things. Girls do really weird things for no apparent reason just to test us maybe but i am convinced that they do it to mess with us. In plain English and this may be hard for you to do but it worked like a charm for me, "IGNORE HER". Don't answer her phone calls or messages, and go on living life before you met her. If she really loves you she will be back, and if she moves on then that's the way it was meant to be, anyway who wants to be with someone that is not fully committed to the relationship and is going to give you so much drama for stress for no apparent reason. When girls start acting like this the difference between us and them is that they don't let something little like logic ever get in the way of their decisions. I have a feeling if you play VERY hard to get and ignore her for a while she will be back at your feet in no time.
2006-09-28 04:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i changed into with my husband for quite a lot 15 years he's white and as you will discover i'm no longer. In all that aspect he in no way and that i mean in no way reported that note to me. Even now that we are dealing with a separation and performance gotten ugly he has nonetheless no longer crossed that line and if he did that in the previous in our courting i'd have walked and in no way regarded lower back. Calling someone gay which will be equivalent to calling someone stupid or dumb relying on the tone is NOWHERE close to to calling someone a racial slur! it truly is going to be a lengthy and frustrating procedure yet you should beg profusely for her forgiveness and locate out what you should do to make it authentic. you should attempt this for days (party deliver her plant existence for per week and write about how stupid you've been, do each and every of the abode initiatives, make her breakfast or dinner and serve her etc etc) and proceed to attempt this stuff once the toddler comes in case you want her you want to take the time to provide her lower back dignity and self appreciate because it truly is what you took from her. as quickly because it truly is settled sit down her down and tell her how offensive it truly is even as she calls you gay (fairly once you've themes with gay human beings or it threatens your manhood) Remind her how a lot it damage her to be called something that changed into offensive to her (without declaring the note) and tell her that you want her appreciate the way she needs yours. If she can not relate to that than she is the fellow who is going to be hurting the courting. do not EVER do this back!
2016-12-06 07:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she needs time to think, the best thing to do is let her. Prepare yourself for things either way. Call your best friend and ask him to keep you occupied for a couple days. Good luck!
2006-09-28 04:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by BigDanInTX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See her face to face! Tell her how much you care! If she still says she needs time, then ask her to call you when she thinks the time is right...
2006-09-28 04:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anna-Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her cool off, don't bug her, if it's meant to be she'll call...
2006-09-28 04:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait it out. she's probably just nervous.
you must know what you did right? don't do it again.
2006-09-28 04:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by mzanjell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋