what can I do I feel like my fiance has an addictin to porn and strippers??????is that normal for a guy to act?????
2006-09-28 04:13:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it bothers you, talk to him about it. If he likes to look at nude pictures, let him take some snapshots of you to keep in the bedside drawer to look at. If he likes strippers, learn how to strip. Men usually look at this stuff because they're not happy with their currnet sex life, spice it up. Make home made pornos, strip, take pictures, new postions, everything and anything you haven't tried. Find out what really makes him tick. Once you show him your bedroom life isn't boring, he'll have no need for porn. He'll be busy wondering what your going to try, or whip up next. good luck
2006-09-28 04:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your fiance is addicted to anything.. porn, strippers, gambling, alcohol, sex, drugs, rock&roll then he needs to get help and he needs to get "clean" BEFORE you get married.
There are some sites out on the net that can point you to the right places for help:
http://www.no-porn.com/
http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1264/is_n8_v25/ai_15953435
http://www.addictionrecov.org/addicgam.htm
http://www.mental-health-matters.com/disorders/dis_details.php?disID=4
http://saa-recovery.org/addict.htm
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/drug-addiction/DS00183
Is it NORMAL for guys to like porn and strippers? sure it is.. men are very visual creatures and they get off on watching women remove their clothes and get nasty.
but.. if it crosses the line from likeing to obsession to adiction then there is a problem.
the MOST IMPORTANT THING FOR YOU TO REMEMBER is that he needs to deal with this BEFORE YOU ARE MARRIED.
good luck!
2006-09-28 11:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAL WITH IT BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED.
2006-09-28 11:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋