2006-09-28 03:52:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Simple you dont - its like he has the upper hand in everything in this situation:
1. he goes home to his wife every night
2. he gets his extra marital relations when it suits him
3. he doesnt stand to loose his job - you do
4. if things dont work out between ye - he makes your life hell within the work place
walk away from this NOW
2006-09-28 03:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are moral guidelines to follow, first being - never have an intimate relationship with a married man, secondly, never have an intimate relationship with a work collegue - if he is putting pressure on you and you arent encouraging him, you should just tell it to him straight that you are not interested in any kind of relationship with him. If you are contemplating a relationship with him, just remember that what he is prepared to do to the woman he has promised to be faithful to (the wife) he will eventually do to you! Good luck!
2006-09-28 04:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by minime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have far too much respect for him as your supervisor and could not possibly risk that relationship. Play to his ego if you fear losing your job. Its not right but if you are stuck in a no win situation, then play it safe.
2006-09-28 03:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by michelle a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it thats stopping you? The fact he's married, or that he's your supervisor? Tell him firmly and clearly that you're not interested and why, and also speak to someone more senior to him. Involve your union rep if necessary.
2006-09-28 04:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no, these things always have a way of going wrong. I don't think you need to be told this either. I'll give you 4 reasons why you shouldn't
* His Wife
* He's your boss
* You'll look like sleavy little tart who'll drop her knickers to climb that ladder
* You'll keep your dignity if you just walk away
2006-09-28 04:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by mother knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'll you don't thinks its a good idea, if he persists tell him you'll think about it. Give him your cell phone number and get him to text you on the weekend. Then go to your personnel department and show him the text message from him. Given modern law he''ll be outer there at the speed of light!
2006-09-28 03:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't even go there. It nearly always ends in tears and you could lose your job. Tell he no. He should no better anyway being your supervisor. If he puts any pressure on too you go and tell his boss in confidence.
2006-09-28 03:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO. Are you willing to jeopardize your job and your integrity for this man? I hope you are wise enough to make the right choice. If he continues to harrass you, I would file sexual harrassment charges.
2006-09-28 11:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by beepbeepbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not give him any chance to start an affair. It will not end well.
Some men just want to find a woman to have casual sex and thereafter think nothing of it ...so don't be the victim.
2006-09-28 03:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want to do, but before it just put your self in his wifes position.... in this world if you afraid of anyone is god only... so if you are right dont worry whether he is supervisor or your boss...kick his a**
2006-09-28 05:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by sap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋