Me and my ex have dated a year and six months. We have broke up and got back together three times and this is the fourth time she has done it. I am her first for everything and she always comes back to me and I want to know why she comes back to me and what I should do to get her back in my arms again. I have fought her parents, we got pregnant, we have been through it all and I know we are meant to be together cuz she even said she knows that..Please help me, I'm scared and dont know what to do without her
2006-09-28 03:45:06 · 5 answers · asked by DustinHastings 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I see you have you a little girl because if you are her first for everything and she is just playing little kid games breaking up and getting back together...and now you brought an innocent child in the world and you fought her parents...no good you can't disrespect the parent if you want to be with someone...that is not love, you both are just confused...sorry
2006-09-28 03:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the answer you will want to here, but if there was one problem, and up untill now your relationship had been peachy, then I could perhaps help you solve it.
However you have only been together a year and a half and have already went through 4 break-ups???
Perhaps its time for YOU to break up with her, see how she likes it!
Dont keep putting yourself out there. Four times is a ridiculous amount! There is such a thing as ONE second chance. If you lie down and let her treat you like a door mat this problem will only escalate. Put a stop to it now and walk away. She will follow believe me!!!
2006-09-28 10:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just to let you know I'm going through the SAME thing the amount of time and everything. (just the dating) We broke up one time and got back together but now we broke up again I want him back now. So about your situation.... she keeps coming back because she loves you and you can't ignore love it's just too strong. But you need to know that you can live without her it's going to be hard but you have to do it (if you decide to do that) Y'all have so much for each other and y'all are going to have some rough times but be strong. What y'all really need to do is talk about why y'all keep breaking up. You need to tell her how much she means to you because women love to feel loved. So U hope my advice helps you out.
2006-09-28 10:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is happening between you two is not normal, she leaves and comes back any time she wants. Don't you think she is being selfish.
I am very sure she does not love you that much to stay with you. That is why she easily leaves you and when she gets dump by the one she left with she comes runing back to you. think twice
2006-09-28 11:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAKING UP 4 TIMES DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER, IT MEANS YOU GUYS HAVE SERIOUS ISSUES THAT NEED TO BE FIXED BEFORE YOU CAN HAVE A SUCCESSFULL RELATIONSHIP.
2006-09-28 11:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋