please help me. i am strongly attracted towards every good looking male i meet.
2006-09-28 03:28:53 · 20 answers · asked by dhaval b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is probably a LGBT group in your area, particularly if there is a university in your community. Get in contact with them; go to the meetings. You will probably have a good chance of meeting someone special there. Good luck.
2006-10-02 20:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are - you are a hotbed of hormones at the moment, and men reach their sexual peak right about your age. It's downhill from there!
I would suggest you get involved in gay clubs, social events, and non-profit organizations in your area. There are dance clubs, sports clubs, various hobbies and passtimes; and there are sexual health, HIV/AIDS support, political organizations - something must appeal to you out of all those possibilities. Of course if you live in a remote area, they might not all be available, but generally if you can drive to a large town you'll find something. If you do this, you'll meet other gay men in a social setting that will allow you to develop a genuine relationship.
I'd avoid clubs/bars, because there will be a lot of people just looking for casual sex there - unless that's really what you want. Whatever you end up doing (or whoever!) play safe - always use a condom.
2006-09-28 10:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax! No one can tell you precisely what you need to do and I'm sure every gay male has been exactly where you are. Above everything else, I strongly suggest that you DO NOT tell these "good looking males you meet" of your feelings unless you can be 100% sure of their orientation. You may be very unpleasently, and violently, surprised! I know about what I'm telling you!!
If it's only sex you want just buy some toys. I'm sure you know there are millions of companies that sell them. I've seen some that are electric machines! They're like sexual jack hammers maxed out on viagra! LOL! Google it. You can just fantize about the other guy.
2006-09-28 12:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 19 that is perfectly normal. Jsut don't bed down with them all or you won't make it to 30! Take your time be careful and be choosey and for CRYING OUT LOUD be SAFE! Remember this you never get to go back in time so never rush things. Enjoy the small moments for they are what life is really made of...the first kiss, holding hands, hugging, all of those things are amazing when you realize you are connecting with another person. Take everything a step at a time.
As for finding a date, well that depends on where you live and what you enjoy doing. Post another question and tell us where you love and what you enjoy to do for fun, you will get tons of suggestions!
2006-09-28 10:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you start on-line. India has both Hindu and Muslims...neither are particularly gay-friendly. Hindus are by far, more tolerant. You can have virtual affairs with many, and on-line, it matters not where they are located. IF you want the real think perhaps 0n-line will lead you in the right direction. I will say that all major cities have Gay areas and Gay clubs, India is no exception. Good luck
2006-09-28 12:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where you live. If there is a major metropolitan area within a 2-hour drive, I suggest that you look there. But BE CAREFUL! If not, you may need to consider relocating to an area where there is a strong gay community. If you do not want to consider relocation, then you may need to change where you're looking for a "bed partner".
2006-09-28 11:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by dmspartan2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of places have groups for young gays and lesbians. Here in DC they have SYMAL, the sexual youth something something... That's a good way to meet people.
2006-09-28 10:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Aloof...
Don't give of the desperate, needy vibe (its a turn off).
learn to Flirt (its an art).
Be comfortable in your own skin - people will tend to gravitate towards you more that way.
2006-10-06 06:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by elymendoza1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember Haste Makes Waste. Take life as easy as you can be. They will come to you,believe me. You might end up to Which is Which?. So cool down.
2006-09-28 10:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im just 20, but i don't RUSH things out, slow down, don't find anybody you are atrracted with, to be with you on bed...
enjoy friendship first with pipol of the same sex, gays, straight guys...and bisexual.. get into the group of those pipol for you to know whats in the reality of being homosexual... it's not wrong to have sex, just be with a person who is good to you and you trust.
don't go with different guys...
i prefer bisexual pipol..i abstained from going with different pipol..
now im enjoying genuine relationship... start from having one as a friend .... and if it works savour your time with him ok? don't rush... you don't wanna get older do you?
2006-09-28 11:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by honeyb.fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋