We were 2 gether over a year! So am i the stupid one or is his gurl the stupid one? She knows about me and knows that me and him still talk! But she dont kno all about the messing part..
2006-09-28 03:25:57 · 45 answers · asked by shainap11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You fing stupid slot ,not the other word. You need to keep your slot closed. Leave him alone you're sick in the head.
2006-09-28 03:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, in a way it is wrong. You don't want to be second best, you deserve to be first best. I know in some aspects you two aren't married so you can do what you want. However, you should stop doing this if he is also sleeping with her. It's one thing to date around but a whole other thing to sleep around. Nobody is stupid in this situation. There are ties that bind you and your ex together that are sometimes hard to break. The only problem is that even though you two are reconnecting again in this manner doesn't mean it is good for you. Just ask yourself what is best for you. Do you need to continue sleeping with him because you feel comfortable and it is totally scary to find someone knew and you know you won't find someone that you'll feel that comfortable with. If you two continue this than that is your business, but he is going to have to to be honest with the other girl because he's actions could totally backfire on you. I hate to give this kind of advice, but I say each to your own, You guys aren't married to anyone else. I just wouldn't want you to feel abused, or guilty, or yucky, because if you do it is time to stop.
2006-09-28 03:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe its time you move on. Or if your ex wants to be with you so much why dont you both stop doing things behind this girls back??
She is trusting him if she knows you two talk, shes not stupid just ignorant to the fact that she is with someone who is cheating on her.
Shes not getting what she deserves if thats what you mean.
I think it is wrong unless he comes clean with the girlfriend and breaks up with her.
Dont you feel like you are being used? Do you like letting him have his cake and eat it too? Letting him have the best of both worlds? Do you like to be the other woman? Would you mind if you found a new boyfriend and he messed around with HIS ex?
Think about these things, its not fair to the person who doesnt know whats going on.
Plus...your getting alot of nice germs- hers and his, and who knows who elses..
2006-09-28 03:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by chiara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to say you are the stupid one because you were with him for a year and obviously it did not work out and he is going to someone else and you are still there whenever he wants some ***...and she doesn't know you mess around with him like that so that's why she is not stupid...so you need to get over it and get a man who is not just going to keep you as an option and pray that she doesn't find out if you continue because if it was me I would have to beat yo' *** for messing with my man...good luck
2006-09-28 03:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with u i don't think she is the one who is stupid, ur ex is.
To tell u the truth, it seems like u are coz u do not respect that fact that he moved on and u know it is wrong but u just do it coz u have feelings for him or just bored.
it doesn't matter if u were with him for one year or seven, he is ur ex-b/f for a reason and u have to keep that reason in ur head..(why u broke up with him in the frist place).
If u had the chance to love someone and adore them and trust them with their ex-g/f and don't know if they are friend or more than that.
This could ruin a relationship and mayb u broke up with ur ex coz he did it with another girl or something....if that is the case aaren't u that other girl NOW!!
It's best to leave him alone coz he is using u just mess around and don't feel guilty about it but u should know it is not good...he is not a loyal ur ex is being really unfaithful to this new g/f and ur not giving her a chance to have a real relationship coz ur to busy MESSING AROUnD!!
This type of mess ends up UGLY so it's best to just be friends and ask him why he is not being loyal to his g/f?
if he tells u about ur his love and he cares about u and etc..( more ****)...don't believe it coz if u were the one why would he ever leave u? or why break up? and why tell bullshit when u know he just wants sex?
I hope u understand thats this **** is WRONG!!!
Bye smile...good luck and don't fall 4 his smart moves on u.
2006-09-28 03:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the stupid one, sorry to say. SHe is not stupid because she does not know that her bf is involved with you and messing around. As you do in a relationship, she is trusting him to behave around you. You are acting stupid because you are allowing yourself to be used. Obviously if he wanted to be with you now, he could simply break up with her and be with you. He is still with her!!!!!!!!! Take a hint. He wants to be with her and just mess around with you. And even if you two were together for a long time, you are over right now. Find someone that will respect you enough to only be with you. Leave him alone, bc you will just get hurt in the long run when he chooses to stop messing with you and devote himself to his gf.
2006-09-28 03:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very wrong and as you said you are the stupid one since the new girlfriend does not know he is messing with you.
The problem here is that he value the new girl more than you that is why he made you to know that he has a girlfriend now but will not tell the new precious girlfriend that he is fooling with you because he know he does not want to lose he.
2006-09-28 03:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both stupid. The guy is the only one who is getting what he wants out of this. The reason that the two of you are putting up with this is because of what I call Winner Syndrome...you both are hoping that the other will drop out of the race so that you can be the winner. The problem is that neither one of you is going to win because which ever one of you he ends up with, he'll know that he can do whatever he wants and you will put up with it.
Get together with her and the both of you dump his cheating a**.
2006-09-28 03:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually your not the stupid one he is. You know that he has a girlfriend so its up to you if you want to sleep with him. I do however feel sorry for his new girlfriend. I was in a relationship ( or whatever you want to call it) and he had a new girlfriend we had been broken up for 2 years and she actually called me because she had seen some texts from me on his cell phone. When she asked me whats going on I lied and told her she had nothing to worry about, that we were just friends and she said but arent you his ex? I said yes but that nothing was going on. I wish I hadnt lied to her now, but if I know him he will get caught but it wont be me in the middle. Good Luck.
2006-09-28 03:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally wrong. How would you feel if she did this to you. He is messing with you and sparing his new girlfriend this messy relationship he has with you. Open your eyes. His bread is buttered on both sides and you are being used, other wise he could have left this new girlfriend to go back to you. He is not interested in you anymore he is just using you.Get out of there.
2006-09-28 03:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn’t right that you still mess with your ex…
But it is more wrong that he is messing with you when he supposedly has someone else.
As for who is stupid… I don’t know what caused you and your ex to split up.
Perhaps you and the other girl are both stupid for having anything to do with him !
If he is cheating on his new girl by messing with you…
What makes you think he wasn’t cheating on you by messing with someone else???
He is your ex… Leave it that way !!!
2006-09-28 03:30:09 · answer #11 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋