Wan to speak for the first time...
2006-09-28 03:24:04 · 4 answers · asked by Rahul R 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Fancy schmanzy pick up lines have a success rate of about 0% these days so if you see a cute looking girl, make eye contact with her first. This way you'll be able to determine whether or not she will be receptive to your moves. If she's waiting for her boyfriend or isn't interested in meeting you, she won't return your gaze and you'll save yourself an embarresing situation. However, If she looks back at you or does any of the following things: Flicking hair, smiling shyly, turning hips towards you (all subtle moves girls use to lure attractive guys), then it's all good and you should saunter up to her when the time is right (i.e. when she's not deep in conversation or being chatted up by someone else) and offer to buy her a drink if your in a party or bar. I like, 'Hey, my name is.... Just wondering if I could buy you a drink? Let me guess. Is that a (insert name of drink she is holding)...' Most girls appreciate guys who are direct (without being overbearing), rather than sleazy types who are clearly only after one thing. You seem like a classy kind of guy anyway so I'm sure you'll do great. Just have the confidence to approach someone, I think you'll be surprised at how easy it is...
2006-09-28 11:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by ~Charmed Flor~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately for me, I'm a pretty funny guy. I make "cute" jokes that make her laugh. Then I just talk to her as if rejection doesn't exist (this gets rid of the nerves a lot, but remain respectful towards her). It's only a game and the moment you start to take it too seriously, she will get unconfortable. Fear is your worst enemy. Have fun, dude.
2006-09-28 21:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appear in front of her from time to time..get her to know that you won't harm her and get her to be familiar with seeing you almost everyday..once you're sure she's not nervous or anything meeting you..try speaking out..but don't freak her out by going right to her and saying hi...not all girls are strong ^ ^
2006-09-28 11:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by --[[S.W]]-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what brings you to this location...
are you with anyone? Do you mind if i sit here? What's your name.. be nosy!
Mad luv
2006-09-28 10:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋