i think i am in love with my best guy friend, i have a boyfriend and i truly love him with all my heart but i honestly dont see us ending up together and we have been dating for about 4 years and he has had a baby with another girl during that time, but i always pictured me and my best friend ending up together. he does not know how i feel but i dont think he would ever consider me as more than a friend. he is expecting with is ex gf and has a new one and we are hundreds of miles away from each other now that we are off to college, do you think he will ever realize that i am the right person for him? his new gf is 16 and lives farther away from him than i do and we are both 18.
2006-09-28 03:15:02 · 9 answers · asked by carmenshamane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Can you have children of your own? Why do you go after guys that cheat on you and then produce a constant reminder? If the other guy has 1 already and one on the way don't you think he should stay with them. I really think you need to seek therapy to help you try to figure why you stay in a relationship that is unhealthy and dream about being in a even worse relationship. I am not being mean to you. I just see you with years of heartache ahead of you. You deserve better. Please think about it.
2006-09-28 03:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to come out, and you have to tell him how you feel. Although the friendship might be ruined, but if he is a good friend he will find a way to tell you if he does not want to be with you. Now, think...you are in a relationship and this man obviously cheated on you so dump him. Understand that your happiness is most important, so what ever makes you happy GO FOR IT!
2006-09-28 10:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jax4all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at the moment with somebody and you are still looking some where. Why don't you settle issues with your current boyfriend first then you can think of how you will be able to get the attention of your best guyfriend.
I wish you best of luck in your love affairs
2006-09-28 10:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally honey,I think you should forget about the both of them. Neither one of them sound good enough for you. Find someone who has no kids and who dont live so far away from you. Keep your mind on college,,and what you want to do with your life. I think in time you will forget about both of them.
2006-09-28 10:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just so I understand, you're saying he has children from other women he never married? and you think YOU are the right person for him.. one would have to wonder how you ever came to that conclusion. how much time and money do you think he'll have left to devote to you when he's supporting all the children he's fathering around town.
2006-09-28 10:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoooooooo.... One thing at a time.. Resolve your current relationship first, then give yourself some alone time.. once your mind is clear you can then persue your friend if thats what you still want.
2006-09-28 10:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Evolrider 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. What a mess.
Forget the past and meet new people.
2006-09-28 10:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg.........to be on the safer side i would suggest u to leave both of them and find a new guy.....this way atleast no one is hurt.........
2006-09-28 10:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Janani . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him how you feel and hope for the best
2006-09-28 10:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by confused of life 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋